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Need an opinion.Okay, so I love my boyfriend to death, let's call him blondie.Blondie is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, I was really depressed and he saved my life.But lately he's been...Pushy.He looses himself in the moment and goes too far, too fast...I get scared, he gets hurt, starts beating himself up and thinking of himself as a monster.I love him and hate seeing him like this.But I can't handle much more of this.Him always trying to get his hands down my shirt and pants is terrifying.So I need to know of a way to fix this without breaking up with him.Help?
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LonelyCat
Straight up talk to him. Tell him exactly how this shit makes you feel. Tell him that you need him, but if he is going to do this then you will walk. If he loves you for you not just sex he will stay.
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alwayssunny
Stop looking for sympathy, do some real thinking on your own and make a decision
That's exactly why you don't learn it in school. It's completely unimportant.

Fuck boys? Isn't that what your boyfriend wants?

Problem solved!
-sigh- fuck love. Fuck boys. I can't stay with him, I can't leave him. Why don't we learn this shit in school?! It seems like it would be important...
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LonelyCat
He is normal. Guys have needs Lol lucky for you he feels really bad for pushing. Some guys don't care and make you feel worse for not giving in. Just tell him to stop if he doesn't listen to that then maybe you should consider breaking up.
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dukyiu
I'll try... I just don't want to hurt him. Hurting hurts me... But I know I may have to... -sigh-
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LonelyCat
Well maybe he needs real help then, from a professional. Or tell him you need him to stop, now
I don't know why these aren't serious answers.

If you think about it, the silliness of the most effective solution describes the silliness of the situation.
Ive talked to him. He always ends up loosing himself again, and the. He just feels worse.
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LonelyCat
People always forget the simplest and most logical solution, talk to him. Tell him you love and what is wrong and what you would like to see happen different, ask him what is wrong to him and if there is anything you can do to help or find a way to help him. Be firm if you have to but don't make him feel like you are attacking him
-_- funny, but is there anyone with a serious answer?
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LonelyCat
Chastity belt.

Handcuffs.

Castration.