15 yrs old and wanting a baby
Posted by an anonymous user on 7/25/2008 10:07:00 AM
i am 15 years old and i want a baby, i am male. i knw i will be able to support it through my dad. no one knw and i knw imma get all this negative feed back. i also thing it will also mean me and my GF will be together for ever
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For the Love of God. Don't throw your life away because you want a baby now. Did it occur to you that you dad may not want to support a baby? Or that your girl doesn't want one? That it could just be a hormone thing? Go for a dog first. And don't do it.
Posted by LilMcGill on 9/29/2008 8:54:00 PM (Report abuse)
sounds like you really want to just trap your girlfriend into being with you- but forever is no gurantee at your age or any age. Grow up before bringing another child in this world. If you really truly want a child - you need to quit being one yourself first. A real man will provide for his own child himself and not go into it with the idea of using his fathers money.
Posted by Rat trap on 8/4/2008 7:46:00 PM (Report abuse)
Andy that was during the 1980's
I dont think you should. Imagine having your childs grandfather haing to pay for everything.
listen to Tad . Find someone to talk to.
I dont think you should. Imagine having your childs grandfather haing to pay for everything.
listen to Tad . Find someone to talk to.
Posted by Wesley on 7/26/2008 12:42:00 PM (Report abuse)
I was a father at the age of 17. This was in the late 1980's in a suburb that frowned on that kind of thing. My fiance' and I would get all kinds of looks and people would talk about us. But, I would not go back and change a thing. Having my daughter then was the best thing that happened to me. I was a mess until she was born. I did not finish high school, but went back and received my H.S. diploma after taking some classes and the test. I took some college courses and landed a computer job, and now work for the number two largest company in the world (ING). The road was not easy and it is definitely the way everyone should go, but for me it worked. If you get to where you can take care of a child (diapers $20 a pack, formula $30 a can, clothing $$$)...etc) with love and be there for them for the rest of your life -then go for it. Because that will be more than what a lot of adults older than you can/will do for their children.
Posted by Andy on 7/25/2008 11:18:00 PM (Report abuse)
Hello,
There is only so much secret talk can do. I think you have you have a conversation with a guy friend who trusts you and that you trust. People who know you best would be a good choice. This is something you have to talk about with somone who knows how you live your life.
Email me if you need anything
td234@comcast.net.com
There is only so much secret talk can do. I think you have you have a conversation with a guy friend who trusts you and that you trust. People who know you best would be a good choice. This is something you have to talk about with somone who knows how you live your life.
Email me if you need anything
td234@comcast.net.com
Posted by Tad on 7/25/2008 8:02:00 PM (Report abuse)
Your not even old enough fully developed. You need to talk to a friend. Somone you trust. not a doctor a FRIEND
Posted by Bliss on 7/25/2008 7:43:00 PM (Report abuse)
Your dad cannot support your child. That would be like your granfather taking care of you.
You are young. Grow up first and learn how to live life.
You are young. Grow up first and learn how to live life.
Posted by Kev on 7/25/2008 7:26:00 PM (Report abuse)
Don't. You're only 15. You have so much to live for. You seriously want to care for another life now? The baby would have to always come first. Just wait, ok?
Posted by Bliss on 7/25/2008 1:34:00 PM (Report abuse)
how long have you been with her? does she feel the same way?
you two should try babysitting for a week together...if you want to be attached to her forever just marry her.
and then plan for a baby when you get out of high school, or college.
someone willl have to watch it while your a junior in high school?? that would suck!
also, no parties for you!
just staying up all night while its crying is what you'll get!
you two should try babysitting for a week together...if you want to be attached to her forever just marry her.
and then plan for a baby when you get out of high school, or college.
someone willl have to watch it while your a junior in high school?? that would suck!
also, no parties for you!
just staying up all night while its crying is what you'll get!
Posted by Kk7 on 7/25/2008 10:22:00 AM (Report abuse)