2 Weeks Dead.
Posted by TheBeesKnees on 8/8/2008 2:10:00 AM
I've backspaced and deleted countless times to try and put this into words:
Two weeks ago I became a girlfriend. Two weeks ago I said yes do to sympathy.
Now I remain his girlfriend. Now I still don't want him.
The Full Story:
I met this boy 3 months ago and for the first 2 months I was head over heels. For the past month and a half I lost interest and became bored with him. 2 weeks ago he asked me to be his girlfriend and out of guilt I agreed. Before me, there was no girl he had previously gone out with. I'm his first girlfriend. He is my 5th boyfriend. He's never kissed a girl. I've kissed a boy countless times. I'm expected by everyone to teach him the way relationships work, yet do to his ignorance and immaturity about relationships I have been in pure agony. I've been sexually frustrated for 2 weeks, pleasing myself daily for the past 14 days. I've resorted to cheating, yet my conscience will not allow that guilt to be put upon me. Besides this issue, my friends continue to pressure me to give him a chance. I'm not sure I can take anymore of this shameful relationship. He's been extremely happy ever since I became his girlfriend and I have been miserable. We talk yet I hear nothing said. We hold hands yet I feel nothing.
Help?
Tags: confused, guilty
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Two weeks ago I became a girlfriend. Two weeks ago I said yes do to sympathy.
Now I remain his girlfriend. Now I still don't want him.
The Full Story:
I met this boy 3 months ago and for the first 2 months I was head over heels. For the past month and a half I lost interest and became bored with him. 2 weeks ago he asked me to be his girlfriend and out of guilt I agreed. Before me, there was no girl he had previously gone out with. I'm his first girlfriend. He is my 5th boyfriend. He's never kissed a girl. I've kissed a boy countless times. I'm expected by everyone to teach him the way relationships work, yet do to his ignorance and immaturity about relationships I have been in pure agony. I've been sexually frustrated for 2 weeks, pleasing myself daily for the past 14 days. I've resorted to cheating, yet my conscience will not allow that guilt to be put upon me. Besides this issue, my friends continue to pressure me to give him a chance. I'm not sure I can take anymore of this shameful relationship. He's been extremely happy ever since I became his girlfriend and I have been miserable. We talk yet I hear nothing said. We hold hands yet I feel nothing.
Help?
Tags: confused, guilty
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the only way a relationship is going to work is if both people have mutual feelings for each other. yes, it sucks to hurt someone who cares for you.. but if you're not happy, you need to get out!! you deserve to be happy and in a relationship with someone who doesn't piss you off... and he does too. be honest with him and be honest with your friends. if they are truly your friends, they will respect your opinion and move on.
Posted by Me on 8/11/2008 1:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
if you really dont like him like that
explain it all,
you cant let him fall for you any more
you have to just let him go explaint it to him in
a nice gental manner
explain it all,
you cant let him fall for you any more
you have to just let him go explaint it to him in
a nice gental manner
Posted by .. on 8/9/2008 12:19:00 AM (Report abuse)
You have to be honest with him, if you don't like him anymore you have to let him know that, people might be upset with you at first, but it's better to end it now then let it go on for months just because you feel guilty. Feelings change, it's natural.
Posted by Ghost on 8/8/2008 3:31:00 PM (Report abuse)
put yourself on first place, tell him the truth, tell him how you feel and leave him. there is no point being in a relationship when you dont want to.
Posted by Chick on 8/8/2008 10:45:00 AM (Report abuse)
Why in the world are you making yourself so miserable? For Gods sake get out of this relationship! You don't have to punish yourself by being with someone you don't love, that's ridiculous. Just tell him that you need space and timfe to yourself and then eventually tell him youv'e thought about it, and you want out.
Posted by Babyhedred on 8/8/2008 7:50:00 AM (Report abuse)