A or B?
Posted by an anonymous user on 7/30/2008 6:06:00 PM
A - ex boyfriend
B - current boyfriend
i've been dating B for 5 months now, and it's really serious and we've talked about getting married and having kids (neither of those in the near future though). but we've talked about spending the rest of our lives together and i love him so much. he gets me. he knows when i'm upset. but during intimate moments, he wants all the pleasure. i'll make him cum 2 or 3 times, but he'll never offer to have me cum.
B is gone for a month. in rehab. he left a week and a half ago. hasn't called yet. it's not his first time in rehab, and he says that they're really not allowed to call people. his biggest fear about going to rehab for a month was that he thought i'd leave him. i promised him that i'd be here waiting for him.
right before dating B, my heart was shattered by A. i mean, he completely broke my heart. he was my first everything. he was the first person i said "i love you" to. then i get a call one day and oops! A has a girlfriend and a child! i mean i was devistated. and then B showed up. it took me a while to let him in. but B stayed and broke down my walls.
yesterday i hooked up with A yesterday. it was seriously one of the hottest sexual moments i've ever had. i know that i should stay away from A because of how bad he hurt me, but i'm still extremely attracted to him and drawn in by him. on the other hand, i know i can see being with B for the rest of my life.
so what do i do? be with A who gives me tons of sexual pleasure but broke my heart. or be with B, who understands me and my innerworkings and is a great guy who could be with me until the rest of forever, but is a bit selfish when it comes to sex.
help.
Tags: love, confused, sex, pleasure
Comments
RSS feed for comments on this post.
B - current boyfriend
i've been dating B for 5 months now, and it's really serious and we've talked about getting married and having kids (neither of those in the near future though). but we've talked about spending the rest of our lives together and i love him so much. he gets me. he knows when i'm upset. but during intimate moments, he wants all the pleasure. i'll make him cum 2 or 3 times, but he'll never offer to have me cum.
B is gone for a month. in rehab. he left a week and a half ago. hasn't called yet. it's not his first time in rehab, and he says that they're really not allowed to call people. his biggest fear about going to rehab for a month was that he thought i'd leave him. i promised him that i'd be here waiting for him.
right before dating B, my heart was shattered by A. i mean, he completely broke my heart. he was my first everything. he was the first person i said "i love you" to. then i get a call one day and oops! A has a girlfriend and a child! i mean i was devistated. and then B showed up. it took me a while to let him in. but B stayed and broke down my walls.
yesterday i hooked up with A yesterday. it was seriously one of the hottest sexual moments i've ever had. i know that i should stay away from A because of how bad he hurt me, but i'm still extremely attracted to him and drawn in by him. on the other hand, i know i can see being with B for the rest of my life.
so what do i do? be with A who gives me tons of sexual pleasure but broke my heart. or be with B, who understands me and my innerworkings and is a great guy who could be with me until the rest of forever, but is a bit selfish when it comes to sex.
help.
Tags: love, confused, sex, pleasure
Comments
RSS feed for comments on this post.
I say neither.
A is an asshole and B is a selfish jerk and an obvious looser who cant stay out of rehab.
A is an asshole and B is a selfish jerk and an obvious looser who cant stay out of rehab.
Posted by GoodGurl on 8/4/2008 7:16:00 PM (Report abuse)
I think you should stay with B. You are really lucky to have found a guy like that and throwing it away for sexual pleasure is definitely not the best idea.
Posted by Bee on 8/1/2008 12:18:00 AM (Report abuse)
Are you serious?.
B.
He's your second chance,
most people don't get that
you're a lucky one,
why are you screwing it up?
Love, or lust.
B.
He's your second chance,
most people don't get that
you're a lucky one,
why are you screwing it up?
Love, or lust.
Posted by Joti on 7/31/2008 4:31:00 PM (Report abuse)
you cheated on B!!
Posted by Kk7 on 7/31/2008 11:15:00 AM (Report abuse)
B. He's really there for you.
Posted by Bam! on 7/31/2008 1:24:00 AM (Report abuse)
Stay with B. And if he understands you, Then you shouldn't have a problem talking to him about how he's kind of selfish in bed. Maybe look up some fun things that you might like to try.
Posted by Skratch on 7/31/2008 12:14:00 AM (Report abuse)
Stick to B... You only want A for your sexual needs. Just sex doesn't make a relationship.
Posted by Bliss on 7/30/2008 10:40:00 PM (Report abuse)