Abuse and depression
Posted by gumdrop1979 on 10/21/2007 8:54:00 PM
If he was soo mean, why am I soo sad? I've become depressed. I just lay here all day. I cant eat or sleep?
Ami I jumping to conclusions?
He told me that I make men this way? How can I stop men from acting this way with me. My ex husband was the same. Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June. We have been dating eachother ever since. Lately he has began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other. I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother, she wants me here. He has been looking for apartments in his city for me. The rent is really high where he lives. Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him. The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there. He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far. Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married? Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now. Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family, friends, everyone. H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year. He asked me last weekend if I can have children. I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BAD temper. He got mad at me and punched the wall. We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom. When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera. He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside. I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog, he took pictures of that too. Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful?
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Ami I jumping to conclusions?
He told me that I make men this way? How can I stop men from acting this way with me. My ex husband was the same. Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June. We have been dating eachother ever since. Lately he has began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other. I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother, she wants me here. He has been looking for apartments in his city for me. The rent is really high where he lives. Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him. The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there. He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far. Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married? Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now. Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family, friends, everyone. H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year. He asked me last weekend if I can have children. I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BAD temper. He got mad at me and punched the wall. We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom. When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera. He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside. I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog, he took pictures of that too. Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful?
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Posted by H on 4/28/2008 11:06:00 PM (Report abuse)
Me and my wife are constantly arguing because she says she does not trust me, i had a relationship was it was because of the way she treated me. I started feeling depressed and stared going out to visit my friends and they introduced me to wrong things but i explained that nothing had happened and every time some argument start she will always refer to that situation.
Posted by TSHEPISO on 10/24/2007 4:28:00 AM (Report abuse)
You need to watch out and be careful with this one ! Take it down a few notches and chill. You teach people how to treat you and how not to treat you. He sounds selfish and disrespectful already. I would take a break if I were you and see how he acts. If it seems calm and accepting and patient or if it seems angry/abusive, posessive and addictive . Think of highly yourself and enjoy your grandmothers company while she is still here. If he is a man that is already complaining that you live too far then he will not climb mountains and swim seas to love you. Dump him before he dumps on you. There are plenty of kind gentlemen that know how to treat a lady and he and your ex don't sound like they are...escpecially if they are blaming the way they are on you. This is not your last shot at happiness or your last chance to get a man. Get to the place where you really don't need a man..love yourself and enjoy your own company...and that is when the right responsible mature mentally healthy man will come along..when you don't need one.
Posted by The guru on 10/23/2007 10:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
seems to be the guy is kind of over possessive about you,it could be very bugging to lose your privacy so watch out.Pretend to be busy for a few days and notice his actions.if he stays good with you then he might have a chance otherwise move on....if u can.
Posted by Gul on 10/22/2007 12:17:00 PM (Report abuse)
Do not make excuses for him. You deserve somebody who treats you better and respects you. This guy obviously doesn' t. So do not feel sorry for a person like him
Posted by Olga on 10/22/2007 3:43:00 AM (Report abuse)