Abusive
Posted by an anonymous user on 6/25/2008 2:16:00 PM
I've been dating this guy after the guy I loved decided that he would stay with his girlfriend. It was because she was pregnant though it did turn out to be a miscarriage.
The guy I'm dating is a jerk. He cheats on me because I know that he has at least two other girlfriends and a fuck-buddy waitress at the restaurant we go to all the time. He abuses me physically, emotionally, sexually, etc.
The guy that I loved, to make things worse, is my boyfriend's best friend. He knows everything that happens to me and I think it bugs him because he once started a fight with him. But everytime we break up, the guy never says anything to me that might indicate that he loves me or even likes me for that matter.
He does tell me that I don't need that guy.
But Everytime He Comes Back To Me, He Tells Me Something To Get Me To Come Back To Him.
"Nobody Else Wants You"
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The guy I'm dating is a jerk. He cheats on me because I know that he has at least two other girlfriends and a fuck-buddy waitress at the restaurant we go to all the time. He abuses me physically, emotionally, sexually, etc.
The guy that I loved, to make things worse, is my boyfriend's best friend. He knows everything that happens to me and I think it bugs him because he once started a fight with him. But everytime we break up, the guy never says anything to me that might indicate that he loves me or even likes me for that matter.
He does tell me that I don't need that guy.
But Everytime He Comes Back To Me, He Tells Me Something To Get Me To Come Back To Him.
"Nobody Else Wants You"
Tags: boyfriend, abusive, love, depressed, nobody, alone
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omg he said that to you?
what a jerk
leave him
you are WAY too good to be letting someone take advantage of you
you should be the ONLY girl in a man's life when you're dating him
and if you're not, dump him
you can do sooo much better
what a jerk
leave him
you are WAY too good to be letting someone take advantage of you
you should be the ONLY girl in a man's life when you're dating him
and if you're not, dump him
you can do sooo much better
Posted by Lcpa543 on 7/28/2008 7:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
Dont go back to him. Hes a liar. If you wouldnt be with him, somebody would want you. You'd meet new people who may find you interesting. Dont stay with a jackass like him. he doesn't deserve you. If the one you love doesn't pull a move, maybe try explaining to him your feelings? If not, get over him and meet some new people. Get away from that crowd.
Posted by Me on 6/28/2008 4:14:00 PM (Report abuse)
PLEASE READ
he is a lier. You are beautiful, and you are strong even if you dont realize it. he has stolen something so important from you- your ability to realize your own strenghs. I was in a relationship like this. Sometimes it seemd like his words hit every fiber of my being and even though he was putting me down it almost seemd to comfort me. This is how he stole my sole from me and left me with a hallow hatred for myself. As for the guy you say you "love", no respectable man would let abuse go on anywhere, anytime. period. He would not cheat on his girl eaither (you dont think he would do the same to you?). Even though you have feelings for him he is no better then your bf. Im sorry. I feel for you and that is why I am so passionate about you. Here is my advice. it is you choice to take it or not. Stop listening to your emotions. It will be hard, but look where they have gotten you. The only thing that he hasent touched are your instincts. they are the only ones you can trust. they are burned so deep in your mind that no matter how much you neglect thim they are always there. You need to be an animal, no longer concerned with love, happiness, sadness, pain, money, nothing except survival and death. Animals dont think, they survive. they dont feel, they survive. He will kill you. He will kill you. If not soon then later. If not phsycally then he will kill your heart and soul. It will happen. you need to do the only thing you can do, and that is survive. get out. get out. get out. get out. get out. get out. run. run. run. run. run. dont think about him, you, or your life. you are an animal and you will fight to survive. You can do it. you are strong when you need to be, and smart when you need to be. now is the time. you are beautiful inside. you love so you deserve to be loved! Do not listen to his lies. you WILL find a real love. you WILL. but not when your with him. I LOVE YOU and i will pray for you.
he is a lier. You are beautiful, and you are strong even if you dont realize it. he has stolen something so important from you- your ability to realize your own strenghs. I was in a relationship like this. Sometimes it seemd like his words hit every fiber of my being and even though he was putting me down it almost seemd to comfort me. This is how he stole my sole from me and left me with a hallow hatred for myself. As for the guy you say you "love", no respectable man would let abuse go on anywhere, anytime. period. He would not cheat on his girl eaither (you dont think he would do the same to you?). Even though you have feelings for him he is no better then your bf. Im sorry. I feel for you and that is why I am so passionate about you. Here is my advice. it is you choice to take it or not. Stop listening to your emotions. It will be hard, but look where they have gotten you. The only thing that he hasent touched are your instincts. they are the only ones you can trust. they are burned so deep in your mind that no matter how much you neglect thim they are always there. You need to be an animal, no longer concerned with love, happiness, sadness, pain, money, nothing except survival and death. Animals dont think, they survive. they dont feel, they survive. He will kill you. He will kill you. If not soon then later. If not phsycally then he will kill your heart and soul. It will happen. you need to do the only thing you can do, and that is survive. get out. get out. get out. get out. get out. get out. run. run. run. run. run. dont think about him, you, or your life. you are an animal and you will fight to survive. You can do it. you are strong when you need to be, and smart when you need to be. now is the time. you are beautiful inside. you love so you deserve to be loved! Do not listen to his lies. you WILL find a real love. you WILL. but not when your with him. I LOVE YOU and i will pray for you.
Posted by Klc on 6/28/2008 1:37:00 PM (Report abuse)