Adopted
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/20/2008 3:47:00 AM
I knew that I was adopted when I was eight..
But I understand..
That's life
anyways, i never told anyone about this in real life
cos I don't want to be tease .. I know, I know that its
possible to happen.
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But I understand..
That's life
anyways, i never told anyone about this in real life
cos I don't want to be tease .. I know, I know that its
possible to happen.
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same here. i was adopted when i was 3 years old. and im short and brunette. While my sis is Super tall and blonde. its obvious..
And when people find out i was there is A TON of questions. it gets embarrasing.
i dont want them to find out about my jacked up first years..
i get what you mean.
And when people find out i was there is A TON of questions. it gets embarrasing.
i dont want them to find out about my jacked up first years..
i get what you mean.
Posted by NightWorldGirl on 10/24/2008 3:50:00 PM (Report abuse)
Sweetie, people do not get teased for being adopted, but since kids in school get teased about so many things it's not weird that you think you might.
And there is no need to tell people if you don't want to. There will be a time when you have good friends and have less peer pressure to deal with and if you want to share ... that will be the time.
All that matters now is that you have a family that cares for you. And that you are happy. And hopefully the adoption doesn't bother you.
If you sense - despite being happy with your family! - that you spend too much time fretting about stuff like 'Why was I put up for adoption' and stuff like that, it would be a good idea to confide in your parents or a teacher you trust. Anyways, it is better to share your thoughts than keeping them inside and fret and fret and fret :)
So chin up and consider yourself lucky to have a family :)
And there is no need to tell people if you don't want to. There will be a time when you have good friends and have less peer pressure to deal with and if you want to share ... that will be the time.
All that matters now is that you have a family that cares for you. And that you are happy. And hopefully the adoption doesn't bother you.
If you sense - despite being happy with your family! - that you spend too much time fretting about stuff like 'Why was I put up for adoption' and stuff like that, it would be a good idea to confide in your parents or a teacher you trust. Anyways, it is better to share your thoughts than keeping them inside and fret and fret and fret :)
So chin up and consider yourself lucky to have a family :)
Posted by WinterMute on 10/20/2008 6:24:00 AM (Report abuse)
Why would people tease you for that? You have a family, and that's what counts.
Posted by Bliss on 10/20/2008 6:01:00 AM (Report abuse)