Affair?
Posted by flo on 10/25/2008 3:02:00 PM
I am in a realtionship and also have been meeting up with a married man, it started with texting, then online chatting, cybersex then web camming. We have not had sex but each time we meet we end up in bed together. I like him, he says he is trying to be a friend and help me, are we having an affair I need to know because I don't know what this is? why do I need to define it as something?
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Honey... it looks like you know full well if you are having an affair or not...that's all there really is to it. Are you unhappy in your relationship? Sounds to me you are, dear.
-Kendra
-Kendra
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/26/2008 9:38:00 PM (Report abuse)
If you have to ask whether its an affair, it probably is. I know my relationship isn't, you know?
Does his wife know any of it at all? Doesn't matter if you haven't had sex, that's still an affair of sorts if you're a secret.
Does his wife know any of it at all? Doesn't matter if you haven't had sex, that's still an affair of sorts if you're a secret.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/26/2008 5:08:00 AM (Report abuse)
As the wife of an unfaithful husband, you should get out while you can. If he will cheat on his wife, he will cheat on you. Also, you will hate yourself later for letting him use you. It's so not worth the heart ache. Years from now, you will still be ashamed that you helped him hurt his wife.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/25/2008 8:09:00 PM (Report abuse)
Question is, do you want it to be an affair? Is this man worth losing your husband over? I strongly believe in the sanctity of marriage, and I'm wondering if your husband mistreats you or neglects as a woman. Is something missing from your marriage that you need to find some extra curricular activities? Seems like in todays world, nothing is sacred anymore. Marriage vows are taken with a grain of salt, and sex is like a sport. Just think of how it would feel to you if your husband was participating in the same kind of cyber activities, and would you be hurt?
Posted by babyhedred on 10/25/2008 6:47:00 PM (Report abuse)