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Posted by breakdownprinces on 6/28/2009 4:12:00 AM (Report abuse)
Ok I know everyone says that having sex when your in high school or jr.high is stupid and that you shouldnt do it but...
i was at the movies with my boyfriend and well a few minutes into the movie we start kissing
well then after that we started to do all the things you do when you have sex
but heres the thing we had our clothes on.
i told my best friend and he said we had dry sex.when he told me I was kinda scard
my friend told me to think about what would happen if it was real.
well turns out another friend found out then told someone then told someone and so on.
people now know wat my boyfrined and I did at the movies and I'm being called a slut.
but having dry sex at 13.being in band, girlscouts, tennis, and being a teacher at a church.
im starting to lose my friends because of this.and again it was dry sex.
but just thinking that it could have been real

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good on you! why are you ashamed at least you are getting some, if your friends are saying your a slut they are probably jealous as they are not getting any just make sure you keep it dry and in private places
Posted by ieatbunnies on 2/27/2010 11:18:00 AM (Report abuse)
sex in a cinema?!
Posted by AliceMadley on 12/2/2009 3:04:00 PM (Report abuse)
Ok, this comment is fo Napalm -

YOU'RE FUCKING CRUEL!
The girl had dry sex in a cinema - yes, she is quite young to be thinking about/doing things like this and yes, she should've done this in a private place, not a cinema - but Jesus fucking Christ, do you realise how fucking nasty you sound?!

The girl needs guidance, not to be fucking condemned!! Who the fuck do you think you are to go judging a young girl like this? Mannnn it's people like you that are ruining this world!!

Fucking Hell.
Posted by Tangiepan on 8/13/2009 7:29:00 AM (Report abuse)
first of all if you do ronchy things never tell anyone bcuz it ALLWAYS spreads.
Posted by an anonymous user on 7/23/2009 10:27:00 PM (Report abuse)
Things like that should really be done in private. You are pretty young too. : / But I have heard of kids younger than that having sex and gettin' prego.

Its kind of shitious that your losing your friends over some overly excited hormones. Haha.

But I say REALLY think about what can happen if you do decide to have sex. Pregnancy, STD's,etc..

Posted by Bisexualloser on 6/28/2009 10:38:00 PM (Report abuse)
Honey, it's true you're a little young for this. But the people who are calling you a whore should shut up because you're not. Slow things down because this is a slippery slope. Sex complicates everything, it creates a bond that guys can break a lot easier then girls. If you are going to do things like this, which I don't recommend, but if you are, do it in a private area. It's very easy to be pulled into things like this because it feels good and you're looking for some love and attention. Slow things down, ignore what people are saying because most of them are hypocrites and have no right to be judging you and soon things will die down. But seriously ask yourself if you're ready for this kind of thing, cause I know it wasn't the real thing this time, but it can quickly escalate to that next time and then you're first time is gone, over and that first time should be a very special thing.
Posted by problems on 6/28/2009 12:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
You need to have more respect for yourself than that. You are worth more than just a toy to you B/F. If you want to do those things (which you are clearly to young for) then do it somewhere private, not at the movies. You would know this if you were old enough or mature enough to be having any sort of sexual relation. the proof is that the kids in your schools reaction to your actions. All of you are immature!
Posted by puglys on 6/28/2009 6:54:00 AM (Report abuse)
Why the hell would you do that at the movies? me and my boyfriend have done this before but in private places where no people are! and I was like 14 in 9th grade and he was a 17 year old and we were dating for a year so its not bad at all because we never did anything other then that. And we tell only trusted sources. Thats unclassy to do at the movies. I think your allowed to do that though cause your not having sex sure your a liittle young but at least your not having sex or doing anything else. I think this is common to happen when your makeing out with someone and if there on top of you its just a boys common nature. and honestly it feels quite good. but dont have sex until your at least 17 and in love. because the maturity rate is a lot better.:) In 9th grade I can honestly say that I have matured from there so much and I think to myself thank god i was smart and never had sex back then.
Posted by blondepower on 6/28/2009 5:59:00 AM (Report abuse)
You're a fucking idiot. You're 13 and already thinking about having sex? Well I guess you must think you are just oh so grown up and mature, yes? A BIG girl, hmm? Your friends are absoloutely right to look down on you and not want to have anything to do with you.

What were you even doing having "dry sex" at the movies anyway? I thought people went to the movies to watch a movie, not to watch hormone crazy tweens dry hump. Your behaviour is disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself, being a girlscout and a teacher at church too, shame on you. Just be grateful your parents don't know about this yet! And I wouldn't be suprised if they find out about your behavior soon enough when your friends parents over hear your friends bitching about what a pathetic wannabe slut you are, they will likely let your parents in on your little secret.

At your age all you should be doing is kissing and holding hands, hell, you shouldn't even have a boyfriend in the first place because girls are pathetic pushovers at 13 and the boys are hormone crazed pigs who want nothing more but to stick their dick some place warm.
Get your act together and keep yourself nice instead of turning into a slut, because that is exactly where you are heading right now. You know what kind of girls do "things" with guys in cinemas? SLUTS, WHORES, EASY girls who no one has respect for. That's who you will become unless you change your ways and slow down. Sex should be the last thing on your mind, yes, it is alright to be curious about it, but to experiment sexually? No fucking way, you're 13, not 18.
Posted by Napalm on 6/28/2009 4:37:00 AM (Report abuse)

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