Alone
Posted by an anonymous user on 7/23/2008 6:13:00 PM
I am the loneliest person alive, I think. My family has disowned me because of the mistakes and choices I have made. Men don't look at me any more. I am 45, and not ugly, but not beautiful either. I want to be loved by someone and cherished and I want to have sex again with someone who loves me and, oh,who am i kidding. No one wants me. Sometimes i wonder why I even bother staying alive when life is such a struggle for me. I see everyone around me happy and with someone and I hate them and wish were them at the same time.
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Happiness i found starts from within.
Posted by God on 7/25/2008 10:15:00 PM (Report abuse)
you should not have to WORK for the love of others. find someone who, at the end of the day, loves you for who you are--for your good days and your bad days; for your looks and your personality; for your interests and your values; for your dreams and for your past. Maybe it's your mom, maybe it's that guy down the hall, maybe it's your dog, maybe it's your little brother, maybe it's your best friend. find them, stay with them, and love them back.
Posted by Put yourself out there on 7/24/2008 1:54:00 PM (Report abuse)
maybe you should put yourself out there; trust me when I say that love isn't going to fall into your lap, you've got to look for it--go to a singles event, go to a singles bar, DO try a dating website like Kk7 said, go to any event where you will meet other people.
and this is the most important thing: when you're there, when you're at this singles event or indeed ANY event, you've GOT to project the right attitude. be yourself at your most beautiful. when I say this I mean smile, look for an opportunity to say hi or get to know someone, laugh, put some extra effort into your appearance, look around and be open to new people getting close to you. But you MUST be genuine about this. just be yourself at your most comfortable.
this is what genuine men are looking for--someone who is comfortable with who they are (WHATEVER they may be), someone who smiles and is happy, someone who they can get close to.
you can do this.
and when you're at these events, look around yourself and know that the people around you are in the same boat as you--they want to love and be loved.
now go get em. :)
and this is the most important thing: when you're there, when you're at this singles event or indeed ANY event, you've GOT to project the right attitude. be yourself at your most beautiful. when I say this I mean smile, look for an opportunity to say hi or get to know someone, laugh, put some extra effort into your appearance, look around and be open to new people getting close to you. But you MUST be genuine about this. just be yourself at your most comfortable.
this is what genuine men are looking for--someone who is comfortable with who they are (WHATEVER they may be), someone who smiles and is happy, someone who they can get close to.
you can do this.
and when you're at these events, look around yourself and know that the people around you are in the same boat as you--they want to love and be loved.
now go get em. :)
Posted by Viola on 7/24/2008 1:52:00 PM (Report abuse)
Bliss, your answers are always so nice and never negative. It's not just a partner in sex i'm longing for, it's companionship, and someone to share my dreams and concerns with. Just someone to be with me and do things with me.
Posted by Babyhedred on 7/24/2008 11:18:00 AM (Report abuse)
try a dating website.
try finding a real genuine man
or, stay single and get your life together so you are ready for wen that man comes into your life
try finding a real genuine man
or, stay single and get your life together so you are ready for wen that man comes into your life
Posted by Kk7 on 7/24/2008 10:50:00 AM (Report abuse)
Hey, come on. Do you truly need a partner to keep you happy? YOU are the only one who can decide to be happy or not. Don't let being single bring you down.
Posted by Bliss on 7/24/2008 12:09:00 AM (Report abuse)