Am I A Bad Person?
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/9/2008 9:46:00 AM
I had a really screwed up childhood and a lot of abuse and neglect involved and other bad things to.Well I met this amazing man who is now like my bestfriend and I love him so much.But I'm 16 and hes 43 and married with 2 kids.Well I started out thinking about him very sexually all the time but would still hangaround his family and even became his wifes friend.He even told me that I'm part of his family now and I'm his adopted daughter.Well now I still sometimes fantasize about him but I feal so bad because I'm part of the family and I love all of them.Am I a bad person for my thoughts?
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It's hormones. If you find an outlet for these feelings in your fantasies, that is fine. Acknowledge and accept the fact that it is your body's chemicals reacting to the main male influence in your life.
There are billions of men out there, many of them are wonderful people. Seek out one who has his qualities closer to your age and who would not be destroying his life in being intimate with you.
In the mean time, fantasies are just that. If you are using them as an outlet for these feelings, there is nothing wrong with that.
There are billions of men out there, many of them are wonderful people. Seek out one who has his qualities closer to your age and who would not be destroying his life in being intimate with you.
In the mean time, fantasies are just that. If you are using them as an outlet for these feelings, there is nothing wrong with that.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/9/2008 5:28:00 PM (Report abuse)
they will never become actions, i just feal guilty about thinking about him
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/9/2008 12:52:00 PM (Report abuse)
only if those thoughts turn to actions. why would u risk destroying his life, marriage and kids life with him facing jail time if you love him?
Posted by collegesecrets on 11/9/2008 10:40:00 AM (Report abuse)