Are they really my friends?
Posted by an anonymous user on 12/1/2008 10:04:00 AM
I know it's long but honestly read this!
-I'm not gonna lie, I am a good looking girl compared to the rest of the people at my school.And you'd think I'd be popular and have alot of girls as friends, And that I'd look down on people and judge that's totally not me! ! !
-The only true friends I have are Guys! ! And its actually not for my looks either.Ont he inside I'm a true TOM BOY! And I have that I'll respect you if you respect me mind set.Also, I do what I want And I DOn't Care, But I'm friends with everyone! ! even the weird people that's where I mostly fit in cause they dont JUDGE! ! That's why All my friends are guys not because I'm some sort of whore?! the Two Main Boy in my life are gonna be called R and N! But there's one other key factor here his names J.
-ever since I started dating this boy who which I've liked for about 7 months now R doesn't act the same around me! ! He doesn't text me anymore and doesn't talked to me much.When I ask if I did something and why he's acting like this he says its because of backetball practice.We used to be so close I could go to his house change my clothes and he was that gentlemen who wouldn't even try to look.
-Now N! We've been friends since I was about in second grade! ! We used to fight like brother and sister! But as we got old the less and less we fought, And we used to like each other for quite sometime.And Now we're older And like we always flirt but it means nothing and my boyfriend and everyone knows that..but I think N wants it to mean more..He constantly tells me I can do better then my boyfriend now..And I know N likes me but idk if he says this cause he cares or if its just cause he likes me?! ?!
-And last there is J! We were tlaking before but we were close as hell! But he's tried to break me and my boyfriend up before.And I was tlaking to him last night and he told me I can do better and that If we broke up that wont be a huge loss for me..But Idk if he's doing it to just make me feel better since me and my boyfriend are fighting or if he's just trying to beack us up?!
---What are all these boys about?! ---
Tags: frineds, boyfriend, confused
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-I'm not gonna lie, I am a good looking girl compared to the rest of the people at my school.And you'd think I'd be popular and have alot of girls as friends, And that I'd look down on people and judge that's totally not me! ! !
-The only true friends I have are Guys! ! And its actually not for my looks either.Ont he inside I'm a true TOM BOY! And I have that I'll respect you if you respect me mind set.Also, I do what I want And I DOn't Care, But I'm friends with everyone! ! even the weird people that's where I mostly fit in cause they dont JUDGE! ! That's why All my friends are guys not because I'm some sort of whore?! the Two Main Boy in my life are gonna be called R and N! But there's one other key factor here his names J.
-ever since I started dating this boy who which I've liked for about 7 months now R doesn't act the same around me! ! He doesn't text me anymore and doesn't talked to me much.When I ask if I did something and why he's acting like this he says its because of backetball practice.We used to be so close I could go to his house change my clothes and he was that gentlemen who wouldn't even try to look.
-Now N! We've been friends since I was about in second grade! ! We used to fight like brother and sister! But as we got old the less and less we fought, And we used to like each other for quite sometime.And Now we're older And like we always flirt but it means nothing and my boyfriend and everyone knows that..but I think N wants it to mean more..He constantly tells me I can do better then my boyfriend now..And I know N likes me but idk if he says this cause he cares or if its just cause he likes me?! ?!
-And last there is J! We were tlaking before but we were close as hell! But he's tried to break me and my boyfriend up before.And I was tlaking to him last night and he told me I can do better and that If we broke up that wont be a huge loss for me..But Idk if he's doing it to just make me feel better since me and my boyfriend are fighting or if he's just trying to beack us up?!
---What are all these boys about?! ---
Tags: frineds, boyfriend, confused
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This reminds me of one of my own guy friends, you can never even tell him who you have a crush on otherwise he decides to HATE them. My group of friends is mostly girls, and we've decided that he is just really protective... which I guess isn't that bad of a thing.
There's always the chance that one of your guy friends DOES like you, but I would say that most of them probably either feel threatened and/or just really care about you. :)
There's always the chance that one of your guy friends DOES like you, but I would say that most of them probably either feel threatened and/or just really care about you. :)
Posted by an anonymous user on 12/3/2008 4:52:00 PM (Report abuse)
sounds like they want you to break up with your boyfriend because they like you more than a friend and would like to be with you, or they really do think that you can do better. A guy always feels that he is in a competition to win the girl when there is another guy involved-competing to make her his because he cares and want to be in a relationship. it's a territory guy thing...which can be annoying. or they're trying to be a good friend and look after you. Guys are more dramatic than they seem and like to make girls feel like they're doing something wrong for no reason. They are great to hang out with though-all of my friends/best friends are guys cuz they are better to be around with, girls are too sensitive and cause to much drama. Yes, weird people do not judge and that's a really good thing!-i'm weird and so are my friends so i understand what you mean. The bonds you have with your friends seems unbreakable. Just be yourself, keep in touch with them, tell them how you feel/your thoughts about any problems or changes, and for the boyfriend thing: follow you're heart. Don't do things just because your friends are pressuring you to do so.
Posted by starlight on 12/1/2008 10:37:00 AM (Report abuse)