Attracted only to older guys
Posted by an anonymous user on 7/26/2008 6:25:00 PM
I'm a 18 years old girl and I only like guys who are older than 25. I can find guys of my age attractive but only very few of them and I can't stand how they act. But older guys seem nicer, less loud, more responsible, don't do as many crazy things as guys my age, and seem to take their relationships more seriously.
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ME TOO! i'm 18 and i go for around 22 and up when it comes to guys. i don't think that's weird or anything, you just have to protect yourself and make sure any guy you talk to is for real.
Posted by Taye1402 on 10/11/2008 10:11:00 PM (Report abuse)
>>Me too, I'm 18 and I seem to be only attracted to guys that are between 30-40 years old!
I think it's okay, as long as you are respected and they take you seriously, and not just for sex :)>>
Yeah, cuz THAT happens.
I think it's okay, as long as you are respected and they take you seriously, and not just for sex :)>>
Yeah, cuz THAT happens.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/5/2008 2:22:00 AM (Report abuse)
my husband and I are 10 years apart and we have been together 14 years. There is alot to be said about being with an older man both good and bad. Good: He was established. Bad: He is very set in his ways and can often TRY to be controlling (I call him out on it) Im pretty sure that if we broke up, my next guy would still be older.
Posted by Old guys rock on 8/4/2008 7:51:00 PM (Report abuse)
hmm well maybe thats just my bf then?
Posted by ... on 8/1/2008 11:08:00 AM (Report abuse)
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@ .... well, I'm actually not searching for exciting and scary experiences, but for the right man to become my husband someday. Most of my best male friends are about that age and they haven't gotten bored talking to me
@ .... well, I'm actually not searching for exciting and scary experiences, but for the right man to become my husband someday. Most of my best male friends are about that age and they haven't gotten bored talking to me
Posted by An anonymous user on 7/30/2008 9:56:00 PM (Report abuse)
hey i have found that even tho at first its exciting, scary, and creepy dating a much older man, that after a while, he actually becomes bored. he actually wants to start looking for someone his age, for marriage purposes. sometimes he will probably think that you cant do it for him, and that if you Do get married, that you will be gone in 5 years..
after a while of being with an older man, im sure that he will want someone older than you are =[
after a while of being with an older man, im sure that he will want someone older than you are =[
Posted by .... on 7/30/2008 11:25:00 AM (Report abuse)
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Thanks for what you've posted. I felt kind of creepy when I realized that I couldn't feel even a bit attracted to the guys closed to my age.
I guess it's mainly because I don't mind the mistakes someone has done before, but how much did they learnt from them, which is mainly reflected in what I described before. It would be weird to expect that kind of experience and maturity from someone of my own age (and I hope to be a bit mature too, which doesn't seems ok to say considering how "inexperienced" I am).
And yeah, I'll take care XD
I hope to not get blinded by love as to not notice is the guy I'm interested in just tries to take advantage of me.
Thanks for what you've posted. I felt kind of creepy when I realized that I couldn't feel even a bit attracted to the guys closed to my age.
I guess it's mainly because I don't mind the mistakes someone has done before, but how much did they learnt from them, which is mainly reflected in what I described before. It would be weird to expect that kind of experience and maturity from someone of my own age (and I hope to be a bit mature too, which doesn't seems ok to say considering how "inexperienced" I am).
And yeah, I'll take care XD
I hope to not get blinded by love as to not notice is the guy I'm interested in just tries to take advantage of me.
Posted by An anonymous user on 7/28/2008 10:16:00 PM (Report abuse)
ya, older guys are definitely more level headed.
they have their profession (hopefully), a house (hopefully ) hahhaha
and Usually they dont make as dumb descisions as younger guys.
go for it...as long as he treats you right.
they have their profession (hopefully), a house (hopefully ) hahhaha
and Usually they dont make as dumb descisions as younger guys.
go for it...as long as he treats you right.
Posted by Kk7 on 7/28/2008 11:34:00 AM (Report abuse)
thank goodness i'm not the only one attracted to older guys
my boyfriend is 13 years older than i am and its the healthiest and happiest relationship i've ever been it
what your attracted to isn't wrong
it's good to know that you want someone who is mature, responsible, and level headed
my boyfriend is 13 years older than i am and its the healthiest and happiest relationship i've ever been it
what your attracted to isn't wrong
it's good to know that you want someone who is mature, responsible, and level headed
Posted by Apple on 7/27/2008 12:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
Me too, I'm 18 and I seem to be only attracted to guys that are between 30-40 years old!
I think it's okay, as long as you are respected and they take you seriously, and not just for sex :)
I think it's okay, as long as you are respected and they take you seriously, and not just for sex :)
Posted by Anonymous on 7/27/2008 4:16:00 AM (Report abuse)
You're an adult now. You can like older guys if you want. Just don't let any of them take advantage of you.
Posted by Bliss on 7/26/2008 9:41:00 PM (Report abuse)