Away from boyfriend at college
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/26/2008 6:21:00 PM
I'm in my second year of college 2 hours away from my hometown and boyfriend of 1 1/2 years.I go home most weekends, he comes up about once a month.He would come up more but his job makes it hard.I save my summer money for gas during the school year so I can be with him and keep this thing going.My problem is that my "friends" here dont really ahng out when I ask them to and dont include me in what they do.I have invited peole over to watch our shows and have been stood up several times.I havent ever went out with them because I am afraid of what will happen.Or at least I say that because I know that being apart is hard on him and I just want to take away one less stress on him.I would hate it if something happened just because I wanted to have a good time.He agrees that this is a good idea.However if I did not say that I feel this way I'm sure that he would insist on me not partying any way.My roommate is never here and if she is her boyfriend is here to, so there goes any shot at a conversation with her.I want to have friends here because to be quite honest...I'm lonely.I know that I can go out and be sensible.And the places that I would go are full of people who I know and who know my boyfriend.If someting did happen it would be so easy for my boyfrind to find out ...all the more reason for me to be extremely careful.Shoud I go out with my friends?????????
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I can go eat or go see a movie, but I am at college nobody wants to do that. I trust myself not to do anything while Im out. But I know that even bringing it up will start a huge arguement. I know that for a fact because I just did so on the phone and he blew up...talking about how Im going to get raped and all that. Basically I have to chose between going out w/ friends or having a boyfriend.
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/28/2008 8:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
You should be able to go out and have a good time without doing anything to harm your relationship. It almost seems like you don't trust yourself. Why would that be? Are you sure you still feel as strongly about your relationship as you think? If you felt like your relationship with your boyfriend was solid, then you wouldn't be so worried about screwing up if you went out to have fun. Having fun doesn't have to mean that you go out and flirt with a bunch of guys. You can go out and get something to eat or go to a movie and just girl chat without partying too hard and getting crazy.
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/28/2008 9:09:00 AM (Report abuse)