Being in an abusive relationship
Posted by ahurtgirlinlove on 11/28/2007 8:36:00 PM
I have a boyfriend who hits on me when I make him mad...... I love him so much that I just don't wanna leave him... I need help
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i did a school report on domestic abuse once. i know it seems like it'd be hard to leave and that he's going to change but he won't. leave the douche now. seriously.
Posted by Starla on 2/5/2008 9:57:00 PM (Report abuse)
I know how it is been there for years when i was younger. they are so nice when they're not hitting because they are trying to make up from the last time they did. I have learned no matter what people say to you to can't leave until YOU are ready. there was 2 turning points for me. 1 when i moved 7 hrs away and he found me and hit me so bad (in public) i didn't wake up until the police were there. they took me to the hospital where a dr. camw in to check me out and then the police asked me to undress so a female officer could take pictures of all the marks on my body because of him. the 2nd was when i told me i couldn't handle they way our relationship was and he got upset that i was going to leave him and he tried to burn the house down with me int it when i was lock downstairs in a room.
just to let you know i knew this person growing up we both moved out when we were 16 and lived together til i was 18. the hitting started about 2 month after we moved in together and didn't stop til i left. we had reallt good times were he was the nicest person in the world, he made me tell like gold and that is way it took me so long to leave because i would always remember the good times that we had but the wasn't the real him. took me a long time to find that out.
remember if you are going to leave him # of things to know \
1.don't tell him , don't talk about it not safe
2.always have someone to check in with and let them know if you dont check in to call the police
3. check out support programs in your area , there's always help
if you don't think you are in harms way right now know it doesn't get worse not better \
MAKE A PLAN TO GET AWAY
just to let you know i knew this person growing up we both moved out when we were 16 and lived together til i was 18. the hitting started about 2 month after we moved in together and didn't stop til i left. we had reallt good times were he was the nicest person in the world, he made me tell like gold and that is way it took me so long to leave because i would always remember the good times that we had but the wasn't the real him. took me a long time to find that out.
remember if you are going to leave him # of things to know \
1.don't tell him , don't talk about it not safe
2.always have someone to check in with and let them know if you dont check in to call the police
3. check out support programs in your area , there's always help
if you don't think you are in harms way right now know it doesn't get worse not better \
MAKE A PLAN TO GET AWAY
Posted by Ashley on 12/19/2007 9:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
this is a case of serious physical abuse and i want to kill guyes who hit grls. even i m a guy. n i hat my dad 4 dat he does same wid my mom.
this hittin u habit will increase in future. leave that asshole immediately!!!! adn i m DAMN SERIOUS.
mitra_yourpal@yahoo.com
this hittin u habit will increase in future. leave that asshole immediately!!!! adn i m DAMN SERIOUS.
mitra_yourpal@yahoo.com
Posted by Mitra on 12/19/2007 11:35:00 AM (Report abuse)
Like they've said, if he loves you he wouldn't lay a finger on you in any abusive way, no matter what mood he's in!
In my opinion just leave him, i dont think anyone should love someone who is abusive!
It is his way of getting you to do what he wants, don't let him, that'll make him want to hit you even more to take over even more of your life!
If your still concerned turn to close relatives for help
Just don't let it carry on this way!
In my opinion just leave him, i dont think anyone should love someone who is abusive!
It is his way of getting you to do what he wants, don't let him, that'll make him want to hit you even more to take over even more of your life!
If your still concerned turn to close relatives for help
Just don't let it carry on this way!
Posted by SecretWishes--x on 12/6/2007 8:33:00 AM (Report abuse)
dont forget who you are, and how special you are, and someone like you dont deserve to be beat or hit, you deserve better, so give yourself better, only you can help yourself, not anyone else.. Dont let him scar you for life, leave before he has you locked up, dont be afraid to to be single, or find someone else,
or....if you love him that much, have a SERIOUS talk with him, tell him how you feel EXACTLY how you feel and dont leave out a sintgle word, your life isn't meant to be abused, neither by you or him, tell him how scared you are and how much you love him, grab his hand, hug him, and tell him..... maybe hes scared too, maybe he thinks he has to act tough, anyone can be changed, they just need to hear the right words, they just need the right boost, and i hope this does it for you.... good luck myy friend,
...you will be hapy someday....
....live_love_laugh41@yahoo.com
or....if you love him that much, have a SERIOUS talk with him, tell him how you feel EXACTLY how you feel and dont leave out a sintgle word, your life isn't meant to be abused, neither by you or him, tell him how scared you are and how much you love him, grab his hand, hug him, and tell him..... maybe hes scared too, maybe he thinks he has to act tough, anyone can be changed, they just need to hear the right words, they just need the right boost, and i hope this does it for you.... good luck myy friend,
...you will be hapy someday....
....live_love_laugh41@yahoo.com
Posted by Chris on 11/30/2007 9:27:00 PM (Report abuse)
Better to leave him.. U can find better guys... It's seem your world not to wide... Be open. There is more guys out there
Posted by LiE on 11/29/2007 10:26:00 PM (Report abuse)
you love somebody who hits you? give your head a shake
Posted by Duh on 11/29/2007 12:16:00 PM (Report abuse)