Bestfriend into a Lover

I met this girl about 4 years ago.First we were just friends, after talking for about two months, she was one of the only people I could talk about anything.Even though I haven't met her, I started liking her.I knew that the fact it was wrong but I couldn't hold myself.I really liked her.About 7 months ago, we met on a nice autumn night.And it just made my love even stronger.At that point, I knew that there was no turning point.Even though I don't have much experience with love, I knew that I loved her.But lately, she started backing off, sort of ignoring me.She wouldn't talk to me for weeks.And this drove me crazy.I felt like I was living because of her.After not talking to me for about 2 weeks, she calls to me and says she wants to meet me.And I was happy because so that I could see her.And when we met her, she acted as if nothing happened and we had a good time.And few weeks later she started to ignore me again.So I started to think...People say holding on makes you stronger, but sometimes it's letting go.What should I do?? Thanks my fellow Secret Talkers.
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anonymous user
No!!!!! Don't date your best friend!! I tell you from personal experience!! It'll all go wrong. Try and look at her as a sister!!!
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Glitterbomb
Ask her why she ignores you sometimes. Find out why before you question your relationship.

Carrie,
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Kittiesnpuppies
tell her how you feel and if she doesnt feel the same maby you should mive on i know it might be hard but if she doesnt feel the same way it could hurt you alot more to hold on and hope
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xxdintf4xx
You should take a very long walk off a very short pier.
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Cynic
Call her on it. Be direct and straight. And be warned, she might bite when you do. Tell her what you feel. If she ignores you, do NOT call her. Do not text her. Then move on.

Women like to have guys who have feelings for them. who chase them. It helps them sleep at night. You do not want to become the lapdog. But you also don't want to become the secret admirer, hiding the feelings.

You need to tell her, in no uncertain terms how you feel. Be direct and concise.

If she waxes and wanes, or seems unsure, just move on. You should have no time for being messed about or 'considered as an option'. Be brave, but also be strong. Don't let her walk on you.

Then you can walk away with some pride.
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