Bisexual Rant
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/13/2008 4:30:00 AM
Before I was really comfortable with my bisexuality, I heard this girl say that she "doesn't believe in it".it pisses me off to hear that people think it's just a phase along the road to becoming completely gay or lesbian.
it's not.i know that I am half staight half gay, if you will.
my straight side still finds men attractive but I also find women attractive.i'm not in transition mode.and it's sounds so ignorant coming out of a gay persons mouth since there are people out there who believe that one chooses to be gay or believe that there is no such thing as homosexuality [and yes there are people like that]
also, you don't choose to be gay. i didn't wake up one day and think, "you know, i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both..."
and another thing, how the hell do you try to explain that to people when you wanna come out."i'm gay, but not totally." I hate the thought of having to explain myself to my family, because I know i'll have to.
k...i'm finished ranting.thanks for reading.
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it's not.i know that I am half staight half gay, if you will.
my straight side still finds men attractive but I also find women attractive.i'm not in transition mode.and it's sounds so ignorant coming out of a gay persons mouth since there are people out there who believe that one chooses to be gay or believe that there is no such thing as homosexuality [and yes there are people like that]
also, you don't choose to be gay. i didn't wake up one day and think, "you know, i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both..."
and another thing, how the hell do you try to explain that to people when you wanna come out."i'm gay, but not totally." I hate the thought of having to explain myself to my family, because I know i'll have to.
k...i'm finished ranting.thanks for reading.
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I definetly don't agree with people saying that bisexuality is being greedy or horny. It's about realizing you can care about someone on a romantic level even if they happen to be the same gender as you. I think people shouldn't allow society to tell them how they should or should not love. It's the same as any relationship seen as deviant in our history (eg. Blacks & Whites, Jews and Catholics, etc). But in the end the person we end up with for a long span of time will define what sexual club you belong to.
Posted by Shadowofself on 11/10/2008 8:11:00 PM (Report abuse)
That is such BS. There is no such thing as being bisexual, it's ACTUALLY called BEING HORNY.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/14/2008 6:16:00 AM (Report abuse)
If it weren't for christianity, sexual preferences wouldn't be such a big deal....
Haha I did went for the "i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both...".It isn't fair to have to love/be/get married with someone just because of the reproductive system they own.
Haha I did went for the "i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both...".It isn't fair to have to love/be/get married with someone just because of the reproductive system they own.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/13/2008 5:16:00 PM (Report abuse)
Yeah... i get this.
My friend announced her bisexuality in year 8, and everyone thought it was just a phase. "She's just doing it for attention" they said, which kind of pissed me off because it felt like they were assuming all bisexuals are that way. Ironically though, my friend now says she's straight.
My friend announced her bisexuality in year 8, and everyone thought it was just a phase. "She's just doing it for attention" they said, which kind of pissed me off because it felt like they were assuming all bisexuals are that way. Ironically though, my friend now says she's straight.
Posted by Jotiii on 10/13/2008 11:31:00 AM (Report abuse)
You're so right.
Posted by RokkuRii on 10/13/2008 7:40:00 AM (Report abuse)