Bisexual Rant
Before I was really comfortable with my bisexuality, I heard this girl say that she "doesn't believe in it".it pisses me off to hear that people think it's just a phase along the road to becoming completely gay or lesbian.
it's not.i know that I am half staight half gay, if you will.
my straight side still finds men attractive but I also find women attractive.i'm not in transition mode.and it's sounds so ignorant coming out of a gay persons mouth since there are people out there who believe that one chooses to be gay or believe that there is no such thing as homosexuality [and yes there are people like that]
also, you don't choose to be gay. i didn't wake up one day and think, "you know, i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both..."
and another thing, how the hell do you try to explain that to people when you wanna come out."i'm gay, but not totally." I hate the thought of having to explain myself to my family, because I know i'll have to.
k...i'm finished ranting.thanks for reading.
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it's not.i know that I am half staight half gay, if you will.
my straight side still finds men attractive but I also find women attractive.i'm not in transition mode.and it's sounds so ignorant coming out of a gay persons mouth since there are people out there who believe that one chooses to be gay or believe that there is no such thing as homosexuality [and yes there are people like that]
also, you don't choose to be gay. i didn't wake up one day and think, "you know, i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both..."
and another thing, how the hell do you try to explain that to people when you wanna come out."i'm gay, but not totally." I hate the thought of having to explain myself to my family, because I know i'll have to.
k...i'm finished ranting.thanks for reading.
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The thing that pisses me off is that everybody who is confused or just wants to experament lables themselves as a bisexual. Its like NO hun, if you are confused then say you are confused, And if you just wanna experament then say that. And i dont know why people who are gay come out as bisexual because they think its easier. How so? youre STILL telling people you like your same sex so just tell the truth
Im bi, and all ^that^ stuff really pisses me off because when people do stuff like that, it makes everyone else in the world think that being bi is just a phase or something just for play
Im bi, and all ^that^ stuff really pisses me off because when people do stuff like that, it makes everyone else in the world think that being bi is just a phase or something just for play
Posted by babydoll on 1/23/2010 2:55:00 AM (Report abuse)
Actually, in a lot of cases, bisexuality is just a phase. Its normal for adolescents to experience sexual attractions to both sexes (I know I do) but they often grow out of it. There are some people who grow out of it gay, some straight, and some who never do.
Just a few weeks ago I was at one of my bi friend's 17th birthday party. She was talking shit about lesbians in a not joking way. I go, "Wait, aren't you bi?" and she responds, "Not anymore."
It does happen.
Just a few weeks ago I was at one of my bi friend's 17th birthday party. She was talking shit about lesbians in a not joking way. I go, "Wait, aren't you bi?" and she responds, "Not anymore."
It does happen.
Posted by FinderOfPeace on 11/23/2009 5:15:00 PM (Report abuse)
Actually, in a lot of cases, bisexuality is just a phase. Its normal for adolescents to experience sexual attractions to both sexes (I know I do) but they often grow out of it. There are some people who grow out of it gay, some straight, and some who never do.
Just a few weeks ago I was at one of my bi friend's 17th birthday party. She was talking shit about lesbians in a not joking way. I go, "Wait, aren't you bi?" and she responds, "Not anymore."
It does happen.
Just a few weeks ago I was at one of my bi friend's 17th birthday party. She was talking shit about lesbians in a not joking way. I go, "Wait, aren't you bi?" and she responds, "Not anymore."
It does happen.
Posted by FinderOfPeace on 11/23/2009 5:13:00 PM (Report abuse)
god that pisses me off. i can't stand ignorent people.
but i always have to giggle at the word bisexual (and not just because i am one) but becuase one of my friends came up to me and said "bisexual is just a fancy word for saying you'd fuck anybody" (before you get the wrong idea she's bi also, ad VERY okay with her sexuality)
anyway, you're right, it's not a phase, and people need to admit that they don't know anything about it unless they are bi. if more people did that there would be gay marrage and no war...or maybe that's just wishfull thinking from a hopeful person....
but i always have to giggle at the word bisexual (and not just because i am one) but becuase one of my friends came up to me and said "bisexual is just a fancy word for saying you'd fuck anybody" (before you get the wrong idea she's bi also, ad VERY okay with her sexuality)
anyway, you're right, it's not a phase, and people need to admit that they don't know anything about it unless they are bi. if more people did that there would be gay marrage and no war...or maybe that's just wishfull thinking from a hopeful person....
Posted by acidmonday on 11/19/2009 6:37:00 PM (Report abuse)
This is what pisses me off.
Everyone is different. There are a million different perspectives, styles, beliefs, and tastes out there. No two people are exactly alike. There are a million shades of gray, a million different variables when it comes to a person's makeup.
WHY, when the evidence to the contrary is SO overwhelming, does sexuality have to be black and white, A or B, right or wrong?
Everyone is different. There are a million different perspectives, styles, beliefs, and tastes out there. No two people are exactly alike. There are a million shades of gray, a million different variables when it comes to a person's makeup.
WHY, when the evidence to the contrary is SO overwhelming, does sexuality have to be black and white, A or B, right or wrong?
Posted by patheticity on 6/19/2009 12:10:00 AM (Report abuse)
i've heard the same argument...but i suppose i can't say anything really because i called myself bisexual for a while before i could finally actually admit that i'm gay so...i guess it's hard to argue a theory i prove even if i disbelieve it...but i do believe it is perfectly possible to be bisexual...
Posted by hemorraging on 1/20/2009 4:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
I definetly don't agree with people saying that bisexuality is being greedy or horny. It's about realizing you can care about someone on a romantic level even if they happen to be the same gender as you. I think people shouldn't allow society to tell them how they should or should not love. It's the same as any relationship seen as deviant in our history (eg. Blacks & Whites, Jews and Catholics, etc). But in the end the person we end up with for a long span of time will define what sexual club you belong to.
Posted by Shadowofself on 11/10/2008 8:11:00 PM (Report abuse)
That is such BS. There is no such thing as being bisexual, it's ACTUALLY called BEING HORNY.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/14/2008 6:16:00 AM (Report abuse)
If it weren't for christianity, sexual preferences wouldn't be such a big deal....
Haha I did went for the "i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both...".It isn't fair to have to love/be/get married with someone just because of the reproductive system they own.
Haha I did went for the "i'm over this heterosexual thing.let's spice things up and try both...".It isn't fair to have to love/be/get married with someone just because of the reproductive system they own.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/13/2008 5:16:00 PM (Report abuse)
Yeah... i get this.
My friend announced her bisexuality in year 8, and everyone thought it was just a phase. "She's just doing it for attention" they said, which kind of pissed me off because it felt like they were assuming all bisexuals are that way. Ironically though, my friend now says she's straight.
My friend announced her bisexuality in year 8, and everyone thought it was just a phase. "She's just doing it for attention" they said, which kind of pissed me off because it felt like they were assuming all bisexuals are that way. Ironically though, my friend now says she's straight.
Posted by Jotiii on 10/13/2008 11:31:00 AM (Report abuse)
You're so right.
Posted by RokkuRii on 10/13/2008 7:40:00 AM (Report abuse)