Bitchy friends
Posted by icantdecide on 6/10/2008 4:15:00 PM
I have these two friends that I used to be really close with, but recently they've started to hang out with my ex (it was a messy break up and we don't (or i don't) like to spend time together) and his new girlfriend who is two grades below us (we're seniors and she's a sophomore) who is really annoying and childish. It's annoying that they would rather spend tim with them than with me. We never get to hang out any more because they are always with them.
On top of that, they have been what seems like purposefully alienating me while still trying to control me. They talk on the phone to each others grandmothers and make up code names so they can show off to me just how much I'm out of the loop. Furthermore, they talk shit about me to my ex, making up stuff that I did to him while we were dating and telling him I did stuff i certainly did not do. Meanwhile, they're always on my back about confronting people who are mean to me.
To make matters worse, they invited my ex and his girlfriend to go with us to prom, so now not only am I dateless, but I have to spend the night with the two people I least want to spend that night with. In addition, they totally ditched me for getting ready for prom so that they could get ready with the new girlfriend because they didn't want her to have to get ready by herself. uhh, hello, ITS MY PROM! not hers! make her wait two years. They guilted me into going by complaining that I'm always ditching them for another friend, and that they really want me at prom with them for the whole night, and that if I'm not, then it'll ruin prom and they'll never forgive me.
Now they're all pissy because I asked another friend to sleep over at my house after prom and neither of us want them there, this is after they told me they had other plans. I don't want to go out of my way to piss them off and make prom more uncomfortable than its likely to already be, but I don't want to after prom with them either. So now i have to decide between the friend I already asked over and who has always been nice to me, or these two who are supposedly my best friends, even though they are total bitches when my back is turned
I just really really really want to tell them everything I'm feeling and everything that's going on right now. I feel that they're so self centered that they don't even realize how shitty I feel when I see how much they talk to the new girlfriend and ignore me, or how no matter who you say it to, and how much they promise not to tell, what you say about someone ALWAYS gets back to them. But I can't, because we have one week left, and four days until prom, and I just want to get through unscathed
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On top of that, they have been what seems like purposefully alienating me while still trying to control me. They talk on the phone to each others grandmothers and make up code names so they can show off to me just how much I'm out of the loop. Furthermore, they talk shit about me to my ex, making up stuff that I did to him while we were dating and telling him I did stuff i certainly did not do. Meanwhile, they're always on my back about confronting people who are mean to me.
To make matters worse, they invited my ex and his girlfriend to go with us to prom, so now not only am I dateless, but I have to spend the night with the two people I least want to spend that night with. In addition, they totally ditched me for getting ready for prom so that they could get ready with the new girlfriend because they didn't want her to have to get ready by herself. uhh, hello, ITS MY PROM! not hers! make her wait two years. They guilted me into going by complaining that I'm always ditching them for another friend, and that they really want me at prom with them for the whole night, and that if I'm not, then it'll ruin prom and they'll never forgive me.
Now they're all pissy because I asked another friend to sleep over at my house after prom and neither of us want them there, this is after they told me they had other plans. I don't want to go out of my way to piss them off and make prom more uncomfortable than its likely to already be, but I don't want to after prom with them either. So now i have to decide between the friend I already asked over and who has always been nice to me, or these two who are supposedly my best friends, even though they are total bitches when my back is turned
I just really really really want to tell them everything I'm feeling and everything that's going on right now. I feel that they're so self centered that they don't even realize how shitty I feel when I see how much they talk to the new girlfriend and ignore me, or how no matter who you say it to, and how much they promise not to tell, what you say about someone ALWAYS gets back to them. But I can't, because we have one week left, and four days until prom, and I just want to get through unscathed
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just talk to them about it, you will look like the stronger one for doing it and they will respect you for it.
as for prom, even if its crappy, you can always find a hot guy to go with the next year after you graduate...i did :)
as for prom, even if its crappy, you can always find a hot guy to go with the next year after you graduate...i did :)
Posted by Kk on 6/12/2008 12:10:00 PM (Report abuse)
You should really stand up for your self. If you don't start doing in now you may never do it. Do you want people to treat you like they have for the rest of your life?
It is your prom and it's your last prom so make it what you want it to be. Don't worry about them they will get over it and if you don't do what you want you may regret it for a really long time.
In a week you will graduate and not have to see those girls again if you don't want to. Don't let them ruin this for you.
It took me a really long time to stand up for my self and i wish i had because i think many years of my life would have been better if i had.
Good Luck and i hope you enjoy your prom =)
It is your prom and it's your last prom so make it what you want it to be. Don't worry about them they will get over it and if you don't do what you want you may regret it for a really long time.
In a week you will graduate and not have to see those girls again if you don't want to. Don't let them ruin this for you.
It took me a really long time to stand up for my self and i wish i had because i think many years of my life would have been better if i had.
Good Luck and i hope you enjoy your prom =)
Posted by Im sorry on 6/10/2008 8:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
okay no offense but these girls are two faced bitches and you need to confront them about it
maybe their bypoler
maybe their bypoler
Posted by Lucy on 6/10/2008 8:03:00 PM (Report abuse)