Blow jobs

Posted by an anonymous user on 9/15/2008 8:42:00 PM

My first boyfriend used to guilt me in to giving him bj's.I was with him for 2 and a half years and we have now been broken up for over a year.After him bj's make me feel disgusting and used.I don't know how to tell my current boyfriend that and have him understand.He has known me too long and known my ex.We have been together for over 4 months and he seems to be hinting to bj's more and more but I know he is too nice to ever tell me he wants that.Secretly I am glad.And secretly I wish it didn't bother me.I am over almost all of the shit my ex put me through...this is just one of the last things I need to get over.

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omg if he is critisisng u for making him feel all good down in that part tell him to go fuck himself and that he is gna b a lonar

Posted by an anonymous user on 9/21/2008 8:01:00 PM (Report abuse)

tell him hes a dooshe bag and dunt he give u alitle sumin sumin.....

Posted by an anonymous user on 9/20/2008 11:16:00 AM (Report abuse)

You could carefully bring up the fact that you had a bad experience with oral sex and how it makes you feel inside. If he loves you, he will understand how you feel and not pressure you into anything. After being with him for a while, and feeling secure and safe and not dominated, you might want to perform oral sex again. And if you never want to, that's ok too. He should respect that. Oral sex shouldn't make or break a relationship. There's so much more to sex than that.

Posted by an anonymous user on 9/17/2008 9:26:00 AM (Report abuse)

I agree with the comment below, just raise it lightly, perhaps say something like 'I really care about you and I'd really like to pleasure you with my mouth, but I have had a couple of bad experiences...' and then tell him what you told us. If he's worth it, he'll understand, and you can work through it together.

I know you'll sort this out :)

Posted by Lemonade on 9/16/2008 4:55:00 AM (Report abuse)

Not talking to your boyfriend when something is eating at you from underneath is just going to pull apart your relationship with him. If you care about him enough to let him understand who you are and what you are going through, you should tell him about it. If they're just trying to use you for your sexual favors, then I'd say to ditch 'em, especially if they keep persisting even if you say no.

I hope you get over it. (:

Posted by Penguin on 9/15/2008 10:28:00 PM (Report abuse)

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