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Posted by an anonymous user on 8/20/2008 9:01:00 PM
well i known this boy for 2 years and today on myspace he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him i am only 13 and he is 14 what should i do please help

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don't be Dumb
Posted by Fllaaaaaaaaask on 11/18/2008 5:02:00 PM (Report abuse)
You don't wanna be fucked and chucked anyway.
Posted by smartgirl102 on 11/18/2008 2:34:00 PM (Report abuse)
WOW.

1) You're too young sweetie, just wait. You have all the time in the world for that stuff
2) OVER MYSPACE?! whoa, guys have no balls these days. He couldn't even ask you in person?
Posted by smartgirl102 on 11/18/2008 2:34:00 PM (Report abuse)
DONT DO IT! He also probably wont know the pain he is causing you physically. It hurts. Alot. I hate to be blunt but if he asked you to have sex online then he doesn't care about hurting you or not. To him, you are probably going to be a conquest to his buddies. This happened to my cousin except for the online thing but he hurt her alot. She told me she wished she had waited. Please dont try to grow up too fast.
Posted by LilMcGill on 11/17/2008 9:26:00 PM (Report abuse)
go have sex, I mean the worst is he will be bad
Posted by crazyhorse on 11/17/2008 2:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
Please don't do it. Trust me all 15 year old boys want is that one thing please don't ruin a good thing while you have got it. Wait till you are with that one guy and he is willing to wait as long as you want whether that be marriage or not. I have been with the same guy for a while now i am 15 he is 16 and yes at that age that is still sometimes the only thing on their mind. But he knows that i am not ready to lose a good thing and he is willing to wait and he is not with me for that. He has made that very clear to me.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/15/2008 3:37:00 PM (Report abuse)
Don't do it wait I promise it will be better for the waiting.
Posted by Angiesadeyes on 11/13/2008 1:02:00 AM (Report abuse)
are you stupid?
fuck, of course you say no.
what kind of a pervert asks a thing like that ONLINE?
dont be a dumb cunt.
Posted by ipoop on 11/12/2008 2:34:00 PM (Report abuse)
nah what if its an online cop. nope dont do it
Posted by secert9lives on 11/11/2008 12:50:00 PM (Report abuse)
Don't you want it to be romantic the first time? Think about it. He asked you to have sex on my space? He is a loser.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/10/2008 6:20:00 PM (Report abuse)
dont do it chicken. trust me. im 15 and one of my mates asked to me have sex with him and i said yes. we was very close. he even always told me that he loved me at like the end of a conversaion on the phone. we may as well had been going out. then when we finally had sex and after it he never talked to me again. and it was my first time. we didnt even use a condom. i regret it so much. wait til your ready and that its with someone who you know will respect you. and dont forget, use a condom!
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/9/2008 1:02:00 PM (Report abuse)
OMG!!!! Don't do it! this guy is using you!! I am 14 I understand! He is a fake. That is not the right thing to do! But hey if you want a guy F you up and then leave you broken hearted, go ahead and ask him what time you'll meet. Make good choices!!!
Posted by WinryRockbell on 11/2/2008 6:37:00 PM (Report abuse)
I'm 14, im a virgin. DON"T DO IT. HE'LL DUMP YOU AFTER HE DOES YOU, AND LEAVE YOU FEELING DIRTY AND UNWANTED. come on, you're practically a kid
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/1/2008 8:55:00 PM (Report abuse)
don't u will regret it! wait until u are in love and it is something you want to share with that special person. Don't rush into things. I would reply back and tell him "I respect myself, i'm not that kind of girl, so the answer is no"
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/14/2008 10:50:00 PM (Report abuse)
why say it over myspace in the first place?
and don't do it, i know people who have done it and regret later

please wait, when you actually.
if your asking people on what you should do, then your not ready you time will come.
Posted by x3hmm on 9/30/2008 4:07:00 AM (Report abuse)
sweetie your too young, you might think that you want it, but its lust.. completly differnt from love, and if other kids or PARENT find out [which they will cause kids talk] they are going to label you a slut.. babygirl just wait, you will have all the time in the world for that grown up stuff.. sex makes EVERYTHING complicated, && you dont want other guys thinking they can get it from you that easily either.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/21/2008 2:05:00 AM (Report abuse)
The same thing happened to me today with a boy I liked. I am 14 and he is 16 and of course I said no. At this young of age I want a boy who cares about my thoughts, not my body. The wise thing to do is just say no so that you are not used. Even if the boy I like doesn't like me any more, I don't care because it is wrong and rude of him to ask. Just say no...good luck.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/10/2008 5:29:00 PM (Report abuse)
Do not ever agree to have any sex until you are married !!!
Posted by wii on 8/31/2008 6:49:00 AM (Report abuse)
YOUR ARE ACUALLY STUPID IF YOU EVEN CONSIDER HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE YOU'VE MEET ON MYSPACE!
HE COULD BE LYING TO YOU! HE COULD BE A FREAKING 35 YEAR OLD MAN!
GROW SOME FUCKING BRAINS PLEASE!
GET THE FUCK OFF MYSPACE! THEY SHOULD MAKE A NEW RULE!
NO LITTLE GIRLS ALOUD!
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/25/2008 2:29:00 PM (Report abuse)
i dont want to be patronising, but can you pls dont. JUST, don't. yeah, Don't. Don't. Don't. Don't.

DON'T.

DON'T.

DON'T
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/22/2008 3:01:00 AM (Report abuse)
LIVE YO LIFE HOE
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/21/2008 7:13:00 PM (Report abuse)
Don't. You're 13. That's way to young. You won't get your virginity back afterwards. You should have sex with the guy you love, when you are older.
Posted by RokkuRii on 8/21/2008 10:24:00 AM (Report abuse)
I say wait a couple of years, he'll just brag about it to everyone at school! He just wants to be a big man infront of his friends
Posted by XXXalexisXXX on 8/21/2008 8:12:00 AM (Report abuse)
Dont do it.
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/21/2008 4:37:00 AM (Report abuse)
u should only do if u want...
and if u are not sure but willing to do something then try foreplay first.. he or anyone should not make u think u need to give it up. if u feel u want to wait then do it. wait as long as u want no one can comment on what u want to do with urself.
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/21/2008 2:13:00 AM (Report abuse)
Sweetie...having sex at a young age can be a big decision in life....you should be aware of the consequences that it might bring, pregnancy...stds...but its your choice...in my opinion you shouldnt be caried away by a guy that u have known for 2 years, he might just want use u and get wat he wants and leaves u might get emotionally attached and then u will regret ur decision you took...ur young so dont be pressured by guys....its ur body u take command and you set the limits
Posted by lonelysilverette on 8/21/2008 12:39:00 AM (Report abuse)
i know that you will hear this for years to come, but you're so young. and you have no idea how precious your innocense is. i wish i would've waited. i was 16. and it was too young. just remember, you can't go back. sometimes it can bring so much pain that will alter the way you view men for the rest of your life. a boy of 14 has no idea the pain he's capable of causing emotionally. girls are more mature than boys. at 13 you want him to love you for you and respect your decisions. he may say that he's not going to hurt you, but he won't be able to help it. it's just going to be him being a 14 year old boy. and i know it's hard to understand being in the situation, and i was the same way. people tried to tell me, but i knew it all :) now looking back, they were right. they were all right. i believe you will respect yourself so much more and if he loves you, he will too. too many young people are rushing to grow up. believe me, you want to cherish every moment you have being young. enjoy this time and don't rush things.
Posted by nessanikki on 8/20/2008 11:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
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