Brother in law

What ever will happen will happen.. But make sure this is what you want to do. Like what was said on the last post make sure you are thinking through what you are doing.. If anything does happen and people find out about it your going to tear apart a family. Im sure that your current boyfriend loves you very much and is going to be very hurt. Sorry to put it so blunt but its just being real. And if its something that both of you decide to persure openly after the meeting it is going to be a very awkward situation for the whole family. But then again you will always be left witht he what if.. if you never see him again.. Meet him and see what happens dont plan on anything, good luck!