Calling On You For Help
Posted by XXXalexisXXX on 8/19/2008 2:50:00 PM
Okay, this is what it has come down to for me to get advise...I am a call girl, hooker, whore whatever term you want to use. I have been in the business for 2 years now and I don't regret my profession. I am not fucked up in the head; I had a good childhood: no abuse etc; left high school with 3 As, 2 Bs and 2 Cs all at higher and adv higher (just to give you some background before you judge me, if ofcourse you do...)
Anyway back to the problem. The one thing I do dislike about my job, although it's obvious why it's necesary, is discretion. I understand that I can't exactly blurt it out to the world; which ironically i realise I kind of have done here, but it kills me that I can't tell my two best mates that I've known since well before I took up the job: one since primary! I really want to but I have no idea how they would react. I hate having to lie about where I am running off to every now and then, why they're never invited into my house and my job: that I've made up.
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Anyway back to the problem. The one thing I do dislike about my job, although it's obvious why it's necesary, is discretion. I understand that I can't exactly blurt it out to the world; which ironically i realise I kind of have done here, but it kills me that I can't tell my two best mates that I've known since well before I took up the job: one since primary! I really want to but I have no idea how they would react. I hate having to lie about where I am running off to every now and then, why they're never invited into my house and my job: that I've made up.
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i say just tell them, if they are true friends they will accept you no matter what ur job is.
Posted by confusedkid15 on 8/25/2008 10:29:00 PM (Report abuse)
if u like ur job, keep it, no one can judge u for what u like. but if ur friends mean that much to u. tell them... eventually they will come back around. true friends who know who u are and u have shared alot with. would'nt be too bad... although they will be asking alot of questions for curiocity. but u never know.
if i were u i would talk to one at a time so u can take it slow on breaking it down to them...
i have a idea.. why don't u start out by asking what would they think questions like- EXAMPLE- ( hey -friend number 1- what do u think of the profession. and see what there answer and reaction of it before u actually tell them what u do.
so that way u get an idea of what ur looking at for reactions.
if i were u i would talk to one at a time so u can take it slow on breaking it down to them...
i have a idea.. why don't u start out by asking what would they think questions like- EXAMPLE- ( hey -friend number 1- what do u think of the profession. and see what there answer and reaction of it before u actually tell them what u do.
so that way u get an idea of what ur looking at for reactions.
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/21/2008 2:24:00 AM (Report abuse)
if they are truly your friends, yeah they will be mad but they wouldnt just dump your friendship. of course they might try to get you to try a different profession
Posted by amandak26 on 8/20/2008 2:34:00 AM (Report abuse)