Can guys really change like this?? I know he cares, but....
Posted by Audrina on 9/25/2008 11:22:00 PM
I have known this guy alittle more then a year now.We met at school and we
only had like one class together, but I saw him alot during the day.We really
did not hang out much at the start of the year, and I mean, we just didnt talk
or anything but we started to talk more as the year went on and we became
friends.I lived kind of far from my school..so we didnt really hang out that
much outside of the school week but we would just start talking after school
and stuff and we would see eachother at games and school events and I can
tell he likes me and I like him but he never asked me out...( in that girlfriend
way).
He was dating some one for alittle last year and I was kinda talking to
this guy but both relationships for us really didnt go far.We had a long talk at
Graduation and he was like...Audrina, I really like you and I am happy that we
became friends...and I think your such a great person...always be
yourself...cause you are definitely a one of a kind.He gave me a hug and all
this..but never like made any move or anything.I was like...what? Like...the
moment was there and it just didnt happen.
Since we both graduated, I actually moved out of my house for college and we
live in the same town now...he goes to a diffrent school then me now , but he
has his own place too...so...I see him still all the time.The thing is, when I do
see him...I mean we flirt with eachother, like we playfight and stuff...and we
are always joking around with eachother and we laugh all the time.He's
always taking my cell phone, or sometimes just using his and...trying to take pictures of me...and we
have taken lots of photos together..and he is always like, if there is a group of people or if like were all taking pictures and then I'll leave for a drink or something..he'll be like..."Audrina, get over here! ...We were taking pictures right??"....and he has this one that he framed.He has it near his computer.I
mean, I just don't see most guys as the type to take time to "Frame" a photo
of them and some one else, if they did not really care about the person, or
want to think about that other person.It is a photo just of the two of us too.
It is like all the signs are there that he wants us to have a relationship..but he
wont make any moves.I just dont understand.Am I doing something wrong
maybe? We are both Single.Is he scared of a commitment?
And really..the thing is, this guy was kind of known as someone who would
not do that kind of stuff...like he never kept things that people gave him out
all the time, or never bothered to frame stuff.I know once, as a joke I told
him..."hey..you should frame this" and he did it and ever since..he started
framing stuff with him and I and sometimes I think..."wow..you think he is
doing all of this, because he thinks I want him to?" Its like he is changing.
So you think he is doing all of this to show me he cares, so I can make a
move? I just dont know what to think.
His past relationships, he was personal, but never this personal, without like actually dating the person.
So what do I do...do I just talk to him and make a move????
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only had like one class together, but I saw him alot during the day.We really
did not hang out much at the start of the year, and I mean, we just didnt talk
or anything but we started to talk more as the year went on and we became
friends.I lived kind of far from my school..so we didnt really hang out that
much outside of the school week but we would just start talking after school
and stuff and we would see eachother at games and school events and I can
tell he likes me and I like him but he never asked me out...( in that girlfriend
way).
He was dating some one for alittle last year and I was kinda talking to
this guy but both relationships for us really didnt go far.We had a long talk at
Graduation and he was like...Audrina, I really like you and I am happy that we
became friends...and I think your such a great person...always be
yourself...cause you are definitely a one of a kind.He gave me a hug and all
this..but never like made any move or anything.I was like...what? Like...the
moment was there and it just didnt happen.
Since we both graduated, I actually moved out of my house for college and we
live in the same town now...he goes to a diffrent school then me now , but he
has his own place too...so...I see him still all the time.The thing is, when I do
see him...I mean we flirt with eachother, like we playfight and stuff...and we
are always joking around with eachother and we laugh all the time.He's
always taking my cell phone, or sometimes just using his and...trying to take pictures of me...and we
have taken lots of photos together..and he is always like, if there is a group of people or if like were all taking pictures and then I'll leave for a drink or something..he'll be like..."Audrina, get over here! ...We were taking pictures right??"....and he has this one that he framed.He has it near his computer.I
mean, I just don't see most guys as the type to take time to "Frame" a photo
of them and some one else, if they did not really care about the person, or
want to think about that other person.It is a photo just of the two of us too.
It is like all the signs are there that he wants us to have a relationship..but he
wont make any moves.I just dont understand.Am I doing something wrong
maybe? We are both Single.Is he scared of a commitment?
And really..the thing is, this guy was kind of known as someone who would
not do that kind of stuff...like he never kept things that people gave him out
all the time, or never bothered to frame stuff.I know once, as a joke I told
him..."hey..you should frame this" and he did it and ever since..he started
framing stuff with him and I and sometimes I think..."wow..you think he is
doing all of this, because he thinks I want him to?" Its like he is changing.
So you think he is doing all of this to show me he cares, so I can make a
move? I just dont know what to think.
His past relationships, he was personal, but never this personal, without like actually dating the person.
So what do I do...do I just talk to him and make a move????
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First of all I think the guys likes you...but respects you..sometime a guy will mess around with other girls just get all of his wild oats out. But you are always there on his mind. He will come around when he is looking for someone solid. You are the type moms like to see their son bring home. You sound decent, and caring. Dont hold out for this guy, go out and have fun with other guys, but save yourself for this one. He will come around believe me, I married one of those guys. We will be celebrating our 30th anniversary this year. Remember honey, girls that sleep around are a dime a dozen, once a guys gets that from you, he moves on, but he always keeps his eyes on the one, like you, from a distance. When he is ready to settle down, you will find him on your doorstep, and you can bet it will be one heck of a steamy, passionate relationship. And by the way, when you are out with other guys, make sure he sees you so he knows you are not out there waiting for him. Let him come to you. Tempt him, then walk away..When you get ahold of him to yourself, FEED HIM. You find out what he likes and cook for him...then he will be yours...Have a good time and the best of luck. Remember dont go to him, let him come to you...and he will...believe me...
30 years and still in love....
30 years and still in love....
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/27/2008 2:49:00 AM (Report abuse)
Just ask.
My guess would be that he's afraid to "make a move" because he's worried that it will change how the two of you interact, and may possibly ruin the friendship if the relationship doesn't work out.
Worst case scenario, you both have to deal with an awkward conversation. Best case scenario, things work out how you're hoping.
You'll never know unless you try!
My guess would be that he's afraid to "make a move" because he's worried that it will change how the two of you interact, and may possibly ruin the friendship if the relationship doesn't work out.
Worst case scenario, you both have to deal with an awkward conversation. Best case scenario, things work out how you're hoping.
You'll never know unless you try!
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/26/2008 2:45:00 PM (Report abuse)