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Posted by NeverFindOut on 7/23/2008 1:11:00 AM
I love my dad.
It only took him getting a termnal illness for me to figure it out.
I don't want him to die, no matter how many times I said it in the past.
Now I don't think he'll ever know how much he means to me.

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Tell him and spend time with him. Once a person goes away, you will never ever be able to do anything about it. I didn't do anything for my grandma and she is nowhere to be found now.
Posted by H on 7/24/2008 4:10:00 AM (Report abuse)
my mom has a brain tumor, so i know exactly how you feel,
all i can tell youu is be there for him now.
every free second you get spend it with him,
tell him you love him and you always have.
tell him your really just as scared as he is,
but you know that ya'll will meet again one day.
but tell him you want to focus on the good times ya'll had togetherr
and the goodtimes ya'll are spending with each other now.
call me crazy but every once in a while read him somthing even if it's just a newspaper article.
i'm serious lol.
i'm gonna say a prayer for the both of ya'll thoughh.
Posted by Problemms. on 7/23/2008 10:24:00 PM (Report abuse)
ya dont be stubborn please. it'll be the biggest thing you'll ever regret if he passes.

just show him that you're there for him. i never showed my beloved grandma emotions becuase i was shy. when she was dying, i was there for her, held her hand, combed her hair, brushed her teeth...told her i loved her right before she died and she passed quietly and happily.

you just gotta suck it the hell up and be there for him the way he was never there for you. at least make his last years...possibly less...happier than he would be if you werent there for him.
Posted by Kk7 on 7/23/2008 2:44:00 PM (Report abuse)
Tell him before he goes..
Posted by Bliss on 7/23/2008 10:16:00 AM (Report abuse)
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