Concerned Friend

Talk to her, tell her it is o.k.! If it really happened then she needs to go to the doctor! She needs to get checked out and make sure that everything is o.k.! But also tell her to read this b/c I want her to know a little about myself............. I am 25 now, but when I was your age I made the same mistake, I was 12 when I lost mine as well! In my situation I thought that it was cool, every one else said that they were doing it, and I did not want to be the only one who hadn't . But it wasn't cool, it hurt, I was scared! I was scared that everyone was going to find out, and I was embarrased! Mine was with an older boy to, and just like the boy I was with he should have known better! See what you are going to learn and prob. the hard way due to the act that if you re like me noone could tellme anything) that boys are going to say anything to get into your pants, anything at all! And someboys if you start it even if you are ready to stop they want to finish it, which in my case is what happened to me! I just want you to know that it is o.k. to tslk to someone about it, and it will make you fell better! But please do not start having sex so young. You have so much time for that! And trust me it is worth the wait! Make sure that you are ready, and if you have any questions at all I am here, and I will answer any you might have! Just think about your actions, think f what could happen? Are you ready for any of that? No at 12 you are not!