Continuation of stalker story! the outcome!
Posted by sowondering on 8/7/2008 1:46:00 PM
hey, im the one that wrote this secret. and you know what? i ended up listening to "Whoknows" , about how i should give him a chance =]
well, last night, i decided to meet up with him in a parking lot of a restaurant. i never even heard of the restaurant, but he was nice enough to give me directions... when i got there, the parking lot was completely empty. the only building that was there was completely torn down. the restaurant must've went out of business and he didn't realize. he came out from the shadows, dressed in a tux...mmm what a gentleman!! i give him points for the effort of looking good.
he told me how he knew me, and how we had been at the same club down in Mexico one time. i guess i had given him my myspace url...
So anyways, he opened the door to his van...it was one of those vans with no windows, so i was kind of sketchy about wanting to get in, but he assured me that he wanted to surprise me so he didn't want me to see where he was going. i thought it was so cute because i LOVE surprises!!
so, i hopped in. he took me back to his place...we walked inside, and a ton of candles were lit... WOW i still don't know how he managed that... since we had been gone for at least 2 hours! i guess his friend with the camera (how cute, he wanted to take pictures of our first date!!) set up the candles for him. i have to admit it was kinda awkward with him there though.....
we sat on the couch and started talking, he got me some wine, and i thought he was a pretty cool guy...until...he came out with handcuffs!! this was the first time i finally realized that he might have different intentions with our date than i did... how could he think i'd sleep with him on the first night we met?!
he asked me to come to the bedroom, but i refused! i liked him, but i do have standards! i guess i must've hurt his feelings because he got pretty mad. He asked his friend to hold me down while he tried to put the handcuffs on me. He was making it really hard for me to reject him. i mean, clearly he liked me a lot. not to be rude, but he really shouldn't have taken his shirt off... he wasn't what most women would call "fit". since i had already offended him by telling him i didn't want to sleep with him, i didnt want to make it worse by telling him to put his clothes on!
then he said, "you know what colors would look really great on you? black and blue!" he really didn't need to compliment me after the way i had been treating him! the next thing i knew i was laying in the same parking lot we had met in originally. my whole body hurt and i could barely move. i still don't know why they just dumped me there...but, all in all, i'd rate that day a 7/10!
thanks you guys (especially Whoknows) for your advice!!!!!!
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well, last night, i decided to meet up with him in a parking lot of a restaurant. i never even heard of the restaurant, but he was nice enough to give me directions... when i got there, the parking lot was completely empty. the only building that was there was completely torn down. the restaurant must've went out of business and he didn't realize. he came out from the shadows, dressed in a tux...mmm what a gentleman!! i give him points for the effort of looking good.
he told me how he knew me, and how we had been at the same club down in Mexico one time. i guess i had given him my myspace url...
So anyways, he opened the door to his van...it was one of those vans with no windows, so i was kind of sketchy about wanting to get in, but he assured me that he wanted to surprise me so he didn't want me to see where he was going. i thought it was so cute because i LOVE surprises!!
so, i hopped in. he took me back to his place...we walked inside, and a ton of candles were lit... WOW i still don't know how he managed that... since we had been gone for at least 2 hours! i guess his friend with the camera (how cute, he wanted to take pictures of our first date!!) set up the candles for him. i have to admit it was kinda awkward with him there though.....
we sat on the couch and started talking, he got me some wine, and i thought he was a pretty cool guy...until...he came out with handcuffs!! this was the first time i finally realized that he might have different intentions with our date than i did... how could he think i'd sleep with him on the first night we met?!
he asked me to come to the bedroom, but i refused! i liked him, but i do have standards! i guess i must've hurt his feelings because he got pretty mad. He asked his friend to hold me down while he tried to put the handcuffs on me. He was making it really hard for me to reject him. i mean, clearly he liked me a lot. not to be rude, but he really shouldn't have taken his shirt off... he wasn't what most women would call "fit". since i had already offended him by telling him i didn't want to sleep with him, i didnt want to make it worse by telling him to put his clothes on!
then he said, "you know what colors would look really great on you? black and blue!" he really didn't need to compliment me after the way i had been treating him! the next thing i knew i was laying in the same parking lot we had met in originally. my whole body hurt and i could barely move. i still don't know why they just dumped me there...but, all in all, i'd rate that day a 7/10!
thanks you guys (especially Whoknows) for your advice!!!!!!
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lol Divi is definitely an odd one..
this story is crazy..i hope you're ok..you should probably go to the cops and try to give a description, even if you didnt have enough brains to realize what was going on
this story is crazy..i hope you're ok..you should probably go to the cops and try to give a description, even if you didnt have enough brains to realize what was going on
Posted by Kk7 on 8/11/2008 1:00:00 PM (Report abuse)
I dont know what the big fuss is, i go on those kinds of dates all the time. Minus waking up in a parking lot. But seriously, threesomes and handcuffs, ALWAYS FUN!!!!
Posted by Divi on 8/8/2008 5:03:00 PM (Report abuse)
inlovewithher... you're hilarious! i wish more ppl wrote comments like you. everyone else... tk notes
Posted by @last on 8/8/2008 1:41:00 PM (Report abuse)
wow thats pretty weird... i thought they were going to rape you but they just left you there lol
that guy actually had a chance and he blew it for wanting to sleep with you on the first day
that guy actually had a chance and he blew it for wanting to sleep with you on the first day
Posted by Skit on 8/8/2008 2:53:00 AM (Report abuse)
I hope ur joking saying u rate that a 7 out of 10, and this is a joke.
If not call the cops, tell them this story.
If not call the cops, tell them this story.
Posted by Pom on 8/8/2008 12:45:00 AM (Report abuse)
Are you stupid or something?! How is that a "7/10"? Most likely you were raped, or at the very least beaten! Why would you allow that to happen to you? Don't you have any pride in who you are as a woman, as a person? Here are some basic rules that perhaps you should review: Never get into a car with a stranger, especially if that stranger made you uncomfortable some time earlier in your life. Never get into a car without windows that belongs to a stranger. Never go into the dwelling of a stranger. Never stay in the dwelling of a stranger if another stranger is also there. Never wake up in an abandoned parking lot, sore and barely able to move, unable to remember what happened to you and think, "Gee, anything could have happened to my body, and boy does it hurt! I give that date a 7 out of 10!!" In short, stay away from strangers and don't make dumb choices.
Posted by Inlovewithher on 8/7/2008 11:22:00 PM (Report abuse)