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Posted by meganmckinsey on 8/25/2008 8:24:00 PM
My mom was around 35 when she met my dad, they worked together. She's white and he's black.They dated for a while and in that time I was conceived.But then she found out that he was cheating on her with all kinds of other women.So they broke up.I'm 15 now and I live with my mom and her mom(my grandma.) I wish I knew my dad.I look for him over the internet and everything but I cant find him.My mom is my bestfriend and I'm so glad I live with her.But I just wish I had a closer relationship with him.

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I didn't know my dad until I was 15...As long as you know his first name and last name and possibley what city he lives in, You can go to your local library and look in a phone book.... Thats what I did. And now me and my dad are really close....
Posted by Skratchvomitz on 8/26/2008 2:14:00 PM (Report abuse)
plus maybe she really don't have any clue on how to find him... but it won't hurt to ask. if u hav'net already.
Posted by ripperjoey on 8/26/2008 12:03:00 AM (Report abuse)
i had the almost the same situation, except both my parents were white and they were married when my dad cheated on my mom. They got a divorce and i used to see him in the summer but after my mom remarried i stopped seeing him. Like last year i started getting curious about him again so i looked on the internet and stuff for him but didnt find anything, i eventually asked my mom and she told me something that changed me forever. Apparently my father took his own life a few years after my mom remarried and she decided to hide that from me to protect me. So if i were you i would ask your mom about ur father if you really want to get to have a relationship with him, cause u nvr know what will happen, so ask your mom about him and try to get closer to him, i sure wish i had tried to find my dad again earlier, cause now i will never get a chance to have that relationship with him that i wanted
Posted by confusedkid15 on 8/25/2008 10:54:00 PM (Report abuse)
I'm sure that at this point, your mother is trying to protect you. She is probably harboring a lot of anger for your father as well. Maybe someday when you are a little bit older, you can ask about him. Don't start accusing your mother of keeping him away from him or anything like that. Just bring it up casually and tell her how you feel. If you two are truly best friends, then she should understand.
Posted by Daisy on 8/25/2008 9:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
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