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Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 1:25:00 AM
:p
deleted, most of the comments are kinda moronic anyway, and aren't going to change anything about my situation
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deleted, most of the comments are kinda moronic anyway, and aren't going to change anything about my situation
Tags: love, pedophile
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Well, I love her so I prefer to wait some years instead of being with other women that I know wouldn't be the right people for me.
And well, DiamondDrawls' comment is stupid even from a neutral point of view.
Samw with everyone who assumed that I was going to "do something terrible".
And well, DiamondDrawls' comment is stupid even from a neutral point of view.
Samw with everyone who assumed that I was going to "do something terrible".
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/11/2008 3:20:00 PM (Report abuse)
The comments were not moronic- you are just deluding yourself. please take a step back and find a girl your own age.
Posted by Daisy on 9/10/2008 9:04:00 PM (Report abuse)
first of all what make you think that you will be attracted to her when she is 16 when you are clearly attracted to her at 10 year's old honestly i can say that you are not falling in love you are falling into becoming a borderline pedophile, please leave her alone wait until she is 16 at least and then see if your feelings have changed. You really have to ask your self how can a ten y.o girl have anything remotely mature enough to talk every night to some guy in his 20's. I myself started seeing my bf when i was 16 and he 21, and i can say that when i was ten y.o i was 100% different. I'm sorry but i just think that she is not thinking about you the same way.
Posted by sarah000 on 9/9/2008 2:14:00 AM (Report abuse)
wow everybody needs to calm down! and just listen to what the first comment on this question saids. It really has sense to it.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 11:06:00 PM (Report abuse)
First off, I think you need to take a step back and think back to when you were only ten
I remember five years ago pretty well and I know that I didn't understand half of what was going on around me
I wouldn't have known it if I had sexual or romantic feelings for somebody
I was barely a decade old, as is she
And I don't think ten year olds should be having romantic relationships with people in their twenties, let alone with people their age
She might think that she wants a relationship with you (and I know this sound cliche) but people that age rarely know anything they want, people my age rarely know what they want
She should be playing with her dolls or focusing on school, not kissing older guys
I'm not going to say that you're a terrible person for loving her because you really can't control your feelings
I'm not going to say that you're commiting a crime or even that you're a sick perverted pedophile
All that I can suggest to you is that I honestly think you need to have a talk with her and tell her that you can't start something with her
She needs to understand, and you need to understand, that even when she's sixteen she shouldn't really be marrying you
I've heard people's stories and opinions about being a young bride and it's not pretty, especially when the husband is so much older then them
Please, for everyone's sake and for yours, please just wait until she gets older, until she's at least eighteen before you think about having sex with her or marrying her.
Just because she thinks she wants it right now doesn't mean she'll look back on it and enjoy that decision
Don't tell her dad, and try not to talk to her as much, as painful as it might be it really is for the best
I remember five years ago pretty well and I know that I didn't understand half of what was going on around me
I wouldn't have known it if I had sexual or romantic feelings for somebody
I was barely a decade old, as is she
And I don't think ten year olds should be having romantic relationships with people in their twenties, let alone with people their age
She might think that she wants a relationship with you (and I know this sound cliche) but people that age rarely know anything they want, people my age rarely know what they want
She should be playing with her dolls or focusing on school, not kissing older guys
I'm not going to say that you're a terrible person for loving her because you really can't control your feelings
I'm not going to say that you're commiting a crime or even that you're a sick perverted pedophile
All that I can suggest to you is that I honestly think you need to have a talk with her and tell her that you can't start something with her
She needs to understand, and you need to understand, that even when she's sixteen she shouldn't really be marrying you
I've heard people's stories and opinions about being a young bride and it's not pretty, especially when the husband is so much older then them
Please, for everyone's sake and for yours, please just wait until she gets older, until she's at least eighteen before you think about having sex with her or marrying her.
Just because she thinks she wants it right now doesn't mean she'll look back on it and enjoy that decision
Don't tell her dad, and try not to talk to her as much, as painful as it might be it really is for the best
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 10:00:00 PM (Report abuse)
If you love her, leave her alone.
I know the concept of this is ultimately painful, but you have to weigh up both ends of it.
For one, she's 10, and is therefore hardly capable of knowing what she wants from life yet (because she's hardly experienced it!). Pinning her down into marriage for your benefit would be wrong, because even at 16 a person is still majorly inexperienced.
As for the age gap, you clearly know that you are a paedophile. You may enjoy being with this girl, but a desire for anything erotic is dangerous. I'm not condemning you as a bad person, because people can't help what they feel - but they CAN help what they do.
You need to break ties with this child and cease to view her as a potential mate, because she simply cannot be.
In time, if you continue to be part of this child's life, then who can predict the outcome of your relationship. All we know is that any relationship above the platonic level would be innaproproate at this time, as the child is merely a decade old, and will not understand many of the emotions or desires that you, or any other adult, may feel.
Leave her alone, to save her from yourself.
I know the concept of this is ultimately painful, but you have to weigh up both ends of it.
For one, she's 10, and is therefore hardly capable of knowing what she wants from life yet (because she's hardly experienced it!). Pinning her down into marriage for your benefit would be wrong, because even at 16 a person is still majorly inexperienced.
As for the age gap, you clearly know that you are a paedophile. You may enjoy being with this girl, but a desire for anything erotic is dangerous. I'm not condemning you as a bad person, because people can't help what they feel - but they CAN help what they do.
You need to break ties with this child and cease to view her as a potential mate, because she simply cannot be.
In time, if you continue to be part of this child's life, then who can predict the outcome of your relationship. All we know is that any relationship above the platonic level would be innaproproate at this time, as the child is merely a decade old, and will not understand many of the emotions or desires that you, or any other adult, may feel.
Leave her alone, to save her from yourself.
Posted by theheartshuts on 9/8/2008 6:45:00 PM (Report abuse)
I think if you really love her, to keep yourself from doing something terrible, wait for her.
I mean, you can continue to talk to her, but true love waits.
Try not to talk to her too much or see her often to keep yourself from anything wrong or stupid.
You know it's wrong and I think and admire that you're doing your best to get out of a bad situation.
Six to ten years is a long time to wait for her, but if you really think you love her and can wait that long, then, I think you should.
Best of luck.
<3
I mean, you can continue to talk to her, but true love waits.
Try not to talk to her too much or see her often to keep yourself from anything wrong or stupid.
You know it's wrong and I think and admire that you're doing your best to get out of a bad situation.
Six to ten years is a long time to wait for her, but if you really think you love her and can wait that long, then, I think you should.
Best of luck.
<3
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 5:07:00 PM (Report abuse)
By definition, I already AM a pedophile, DiamondDrawls, since I'm attracted to her. Yet I know that in 8 years more I'll stop being one since she's going to be 18.
Why do you say that she's a "poor" ten years old?
she's happy when she's with me, she talks to me over msn almost everyday, and I haven't harmed her in any way. And I'm going to tell her dad about this soon so even if he's opposed to the relationship, he can blame me and not her for hiding stuff from him.
What I want the most is her happiness, and I know that if it weren't for me, she'd be really lonely
Why do you say that she's a "poor" ten years old?
she's happy when she's with me, she talks to me over msn almost everyday, and I haven't harmed her in any way. And I'm going to tell her dad about this soon so even if he's opposed to the relationship, he can blame me and not her for hiding stuff from him.
What I want the most is her happiness, and I know that if it weren't for me, she'd be really lonely
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 3:31:00 PM (Report abuse)
DUDE!!!!! shes fucking 10 years old you are ROBBING THE CRADLE!!!!
THIS IS JUST SHOWING SIGNS OF BECOMING A PEDIFILE!!!
lEAVE THE POOR 10 YEAR OLD GIRL ALONE!!!!
THIS IS JUST SHOWING SIGNS OF BECOMING A PEDIFILE!!!
lEAVE THE POOR 10 YEAR OLD GIRL ALONE!!!!
Posted by DiamondDrawls on 9/8/2008 3:07:00 PM (Report abuse)
I think that if you love her as much as you say you do you should leave her alone. A relationship at that age can cause alot of unwanted stress on such a young girl. If (when she gets older) she still likes you then talk about the relationship but honestly right now I think your hurting yourself, her, and her family without even knowing it...sorry it sounds so harsh...
Posted by xoToxicKissox on 9/8/2008 11:23:00 AM (Report abuse)
I think that if you love her as much as you say you do you should leave her alone. A relationship at that age can cause alot of unwanted stress on such a young girl. If (when she gets older) she still likes you then talk about the relationship but honestly right now I think your hurting yourself, her, and her family without even knowing it...sorry it sounds so harsh...
Posted by xoToxicKissox on 9/8/2008 11:23:00 AM (Report abuse)
I already read that book. Don't even dare to compare that idiot of a character ("Lolita") to the girl I love.
And yes, I know I did wrong and I shouldn't have accepted her kiss, but I won't do it again, at least not until she gets older.
And yes, I know I did wrong and I shouldn't have accepted her kiss, but I won't do it again, at least not until she gets older.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 10:46:00 AM (Report abuse)
the crime is that you've never read lolita and even kissing her inappropriately is sexual harrassment or abuse to a 10 year old child. i'm sorry but most of the things you have written on this page is just sick and i seriously don't even know what to say.
Posted by Daisy on 9/8/2008 10:40:00 AM (Report abuse)
Wtf, she doesn't know what she's doing.
If you love her in any way, it should be loving her like a daughter. UGH.
If you love her in any way, it should be loving her like a daughter. UGH.
Posted by Jotiii on 9/8/2008 10:39:00 AM (Report abuse)
wow slow down dude she's only 10
you should wait untill she's 16 or something to decide
you're way older than she is but i dont care 'cause im in love with a guy who's 9 years older than me anyway.
dont tell her dad he'll kill you for this and kill him self later on
if you love her which i hardly think you do, you'll wait till she's older.
you should wait untill she's 16 or something to decide
you're way older than she is but i dont care 'cause im in love with a guy who's 9 years older than me anyway.
dont tell her dad he'll kill you for this and kill him self later on
if you love her which i hardly think you do, you'll wait till she's older.
Posted by nightwish99 on 9/8/2008 6:33:00 AM (Report abuse)
Where's the crime, Daisy?
In kissing her once? Or just in loving her?
In kissing her once? Or just in loving her?
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 3:00:00 AM (Report abuse)
holy shit if you are serious... i really don't know what to say other than stay the HELL away from this child and stop trying to reason your way out of a sick and horrible crime.
Posted by Daisy on 9/8/2008 1:29:00 AM (Report abuse)