Does he love me at all
Posted by triciajose on 11/2/2007 5:08:00 AM
I am a Nigerian and the guy I am in love with, is a Lebanese. He is so sweet and cute so adorable and such lovely company. My problem is that he has a cook who is my best friend. I once told her that I love her boss but she tried to discourage me by saying that he will never love and that he is not into women. Of course I did not believe her and I was right the guy fell for me so fast that I was surprised at how great an impression I had had on him to make him fall for me. Right now I found out that he stopped picking my calls. If I go check on him at home, my friend always hangs around making us uncomfortable so we cannot discuss anything with her around. I confronted her if she loves him but she denied. I asked him and he said nothing is going on but why is he shoving me aside? I stopped seeing him for a while and I sufferered tring to get him out of my mind.
He came from a journey after being away for almost two months and he called me to come over. I did; he gave such a warm hug and kiss but after then he just ceased. What is the problem I have no idea.
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He came from a journey after being away for almost two months and he called me to come over. I did; he gave such a warm hug and kiss but after then he just ceased. What is the problem I have no idea.
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You need to consider that maybe your friend is right and he doesn't know how to love women. He may not have "fallen for you" but is just trying to appear normal by having a relationship. Talk to your friend and ask why she said he would never love. Keep an open mind when you talk to her. Ask her why she always hangs around when you visit, if he's her boss, then maybe he told her to. Listen to what she says and consider it honestly. Does what she says fit the situation?
If you talk to her and it still doesn't fit, then you need to talk to him outside of his home. Ask him if you can have a private conversation.
In the end, if you don't find some resolution and discover what is wrong, then leave him anyway. Because the short-term pain of leaving him could not possibly be as bad as living with this situation long-term.
If you talk to her and it still doesn't fit, then you need to talk to him outside of his home. Ask him if you can have a private conversation.
In the end, if you don't find some resolution and discover what is wrong, then leave him anyway. Because the short-term pain of leaving him could not possibly be as bad as living with this situation long-term.
Posted by Shangki on 11/3/2007 12:32:00 PM (Report abuse)