Feeling???? HELP PLEASE
Having feeling for
my......
Husbands best friend now I'm having fantesy thoughts go through my head its bad..
he just got a devorse to my sister and I want him so bad they have 4 kids together ive been there suporting him in any way posible and he keeps hinting around that he wants me I dont know what to do I want to just be close to him I wana have sex with him I feel like shit.I have been having to beg my husband to have sex with me it shoould be like that.so what to do??
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my......
Husbands best friend now I'm having fantesy thoughts go through my head its bad..
he just got a devorse to my sister and I want him so bad they have 4 kids together ive been there suporting him in any way posible and he keeps hinting around that he wants me I dont know what to do I want to just be close to him I wana have sex with him I feel like shit.I have been having to beg my husband to have sex with me it shoould be like that.so what to do??
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I had this problem too...I cheated actually it turned into an affair that lasted over a year, I admitted one time to my husband. It was horrible what it did to him cause not only did he loose his trust in me, he disowned his best friend. U also have to think about who all this is going to affect. Ur sister, ur husband, ur family cause of the akward moments u & sis will have at family gathering & such....I am not judging u cause I have no room to talk....just think about this first....i didnt
Posted by tink46702 on 8/11/2009 9:39:00 PM (Report abuse)
You can't be responsible for breaking up your marriage without talking to your husband. In my opinion this sounds like you are just lusting after this other man and don't truly love him. Thus, it really is not a good idea to break up your marriage over lust.
You need to sit down with your husband and talk about your physical relationship, because it is vital in a happy marriage. There must be a reason for the lack of intimacy.
Good luck and take care.
You need to sit down with your husband and talk about your physical relationship, because it is vital in a happy marriage. There must be a reason for the lack of intimacy.
Good luck and take care.
Posted by RedRibbons on 7/3/2009 3:23:00 PM (Report abuse)
You need to talk to your husband and tell him you need some lovin before you go and ruin alot of peoples lives. Stay away from that guy and you need to get those thoughts out of your head. This was your sisters ex man thats just disgusting . Do you want to be on Jerry Springer? If you fool around with him you will loose your husband ..your sister..you will hurt your kids and their kids.. and worst of all you will loose yourself in the process. Think of all the people in the middle.
Channel your energy to something else other then sex..get a hobby that will stimulate your mind body and spirit other then sex.
If this doesnt work and you feel you need to cheat then do so. BUT dont cheat with your husbands best friend and your sisters ex. find someone else. The odds of that ending well are practically none.
You need to tell him to lay off of you because its not right for him to be tempting you in such a way.
But if you are a heartless woman who doesnt care about those around you then go ahead and sleep with him. But once your world comes tumbling down you have no one to blame but your sorry will power to give into temptation. Is this guy worth loosing everything? And feeling so low until you sink into depression. Its clear you feel guilty for the thoughts just think of how you would feel for acting on them? The sex may feel good for the time being but the feeling probably wont last forever.
Hope I have provoked a train of thought for you. Not trying to sway your decision. Just want you to think about it. Im sure you have some idea of what to do. You just needed a second opinion.
Channel your energy to something else other then sex..get a hobby that will stimulate your mind body and spirit other then sex.
If this doesnt work and you feel you need to cheat then do so. BUT dont cheat with your husbands best friend and your sisters ex. find someone else. The odds of that ending well are practically none.
You need to tell him to lay off of you because its not right for him to be tempting you in such a way.
But if you are a heartless woman who doesnt care about those around you then go ahead and sleep with him. But once your world comes tumbling down you have no one to blame but your sorry will power to give into temptation. Is this guy worth loosing everything? And feeling so low until you sink into depression. Its clear you feel guilty for the thoughts just think of how you would feel for acting on them? The sex may feel good for the time being but the feeling probably wont last forever.
Hope I have provoked a train of thought for you. Not trying to sway your decision. Just want you to think about it. Im sure you have some idea of what to do. You just needed a second opinion.
Posted by LifeIzLife on 7/3/2009 1:49:00 PM (Report abuse)