Friend betrayal
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/20/2008 6:24:00 PM
This is gunna be a long one but Ineed help!
Right me and a group of friends met up and went to my mates party nothing major just to watch a DVD and have a drink or 2 and my 'so called' friend told us she was getting engaged (btw we are all 17 and she has been engaged 3 times before, and she's known this guy a week and she sleeps guys if they tell her they love her which is well known).The next day its just an ordinary lunch time then she screams at me for telling people about her 'engagment' which I DID NOT do and I walked off because she was screaming abuse at me.Some of my friends stood up for me and others told her to change the subject which she hasn't and the next day she harrases me on MSN calling me terms like a spoilt brat, a bullshitter, a cunt, a fucking bitch and a silly cow.She does this over and over I dont respond which makes her mader in the end she says 'i want you to appolagize you stupid bitch' which I refuse to do because I have done nothing wrong and I will never admit to doing something I haven't.then she drags it on and on and doesnt drop it then I find out she has sent a ramberling rant letter to the group of friends saying why she hates me and a load of crap, one of my friends forward it to me and it was awful and she tries to set some other of my close friends against me.
My question is shall I sit in my group of friends with her their (with her giving me evil looks and bitching about me) or shall I just not hang around with them until she has cooled down (which may take a while because this has being going on for about weeks?
HELP xx any advice appriecated
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Right me and a group of friends met up and went to my mates party nothing major just to watch a DVD and have a drink or 2 and my 'so called' friend told us she was getting engaged (btw we are all 17 and she has been engaged 3 times before, and she's known this guy a week and she sleeps guys if they tell her they love her which is well known).The next day its just an ordinary lunch time then she screams at me for telling people about her 'engagment' which I DID NOT do and I walked off because she was screaming abuse at me.Some of my friends stood up for me and others told her to change the subject which she hasn't and the next day she harrases me on MSN calling me terms like a spoilt brat, a bullshitter, a cunt, a fucking bitch and a silly cow.She does this over and over I dont respond which makes her mader in the end she says 'i want you to appolagize you stupid bitch' which I refuse to do because I have done nothing wrong and I will never admit to doing something I haven't.then she drags it on and on and doesnt drop it then I find out she has sent a ramberling rant letter to the group of friends saying why she hates me and a load of crap, one of my friends forward it to me and it was awful and she tries to set some other of my close friends against me.
My question is shall I sit in my group of friends with her their (with her giving me evil looks and bitching about me) or shall I just not hang around with them until she has cooled down (which may take a while because this has being going on for about weeks?
HELP xx any advice appriecated
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i was lucky enough that when an ex-friend of mine started a whole bunch of shit like that, my group kicked her out. i dont know what i would do if they hadnt. good luck
Posted by suzy3590 on 9/21/2008 2:30:00 AM (Report abuse)
Your evil ex-friend just wants attention and to feel powerful and like people care about her. That's why she sleeps with anyone that says I love you to her. Obviously she's seriously insecure. The rest of your friends need to give her the boot. Tell her to get to steppin! You guys don't need someone like that in your lives.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/20/2008 9:54:00 PM (Report abuse)
That sucks. I don't think you should take this girl back as a friend even if she begs you later on. As for your other friends, why are they still sitting with her? Especially if they agree that she is a bitch, which one of them must because you said someone forwarded you the email.
Maybe they are all scared of her, in which case you have to make sure you go and sit with your group. If you leave, then you are only giving this girl more power. But if your friends are on her side, then this sounds like a poison situation. I'd leave the group and find a new one.
Good luck!
Maybe they are all scared of her, in which case you have to make sure you go and sit with your group. If you leave, then you are only giving this girl more power. But if your friends are on her side, then this sounds like a poison situation. I'd leave the group and find a new one.
Good luck!
Posted by Lemonade on 9/20/2008 7:27:00 PM (Report abuse)