Gyno :/..please comment
So I have an appointment wensday, and I got on birth conrtol b/c my period was super crazy...it really was..and I went on it a year ago and I didnt go on it to have sex, but I have had it three times recently and me and my boyfriend were both virgins I have questions...
if we were both virgins we can't get an std can I ?
and do I really have to say yes i've had sex if my gyno asks?
and I guess this is a follow up to see how the birth conrtol is regularing my period well thats what my mom said...is that really all or is she gonna do something to me?
thanks for your help.
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if we were both virgins we can't get an std can I ?
and do I really have to say yes i've had sex if my gyno asks?
and I guess this is a follow up to see how the birth conrtol is regularing my period well thats what my mom said...is that really all or is she gonna do something to me?
thanks for your help.
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yes i know i spell wednsday wrong all the time, and lol and i dont wannnt to and i dont want my mom to know...lude good onee
Posted by an anonymous user on 1/4/2010 7:41:00 PM (Report abuse)
Wed-nes-day, or maybe "Odin's Day" I guess... and you have much more wonderful things to worry about if you don't get the pap-smear, like cervical cancer, death, decay. From your hahaha I can deduce that you realise that the gyno is not going to turn into a monster and do bad things to you. So just lay back, put your legs where she tells you, try to relax, and realise that it's better knowing, for you and for your boyfriend.
Ask her to recommend some lube too.
Ask her to recommend some lube too.
Posted by Cynic on 1/4/2010 7:33:00 PM (Report abuse)
thanks everyone you were so helpful, but i just really do not want to get a pap smear wensday so i dont want to sat anything, even tho i know i should and to Cynic hahaha,
Posted by an anonymous user on 1/4/2010 7:22:00 PM (Report abuse)
yess you can get std's even if you are both vigins, you can be born with it;
no, you don't have to say yes to if you are sexualy active, everything you say in there is confidentual, but if you don't feel comfortable saying you're sexualy active then don't. ! (:
no, you don't have to say yes to if you are sexualy active, everything you say in there is confidentual, but if you don't feel comfortable saying you're sexualy active then don't. ! (:
Posted by creation321 on 1/4/2010 7:16:00 PM (Report abuse)
If you are both virgins you can get dozens of STDs. Hell you can get STDs without ever having had sex at all. If you do not know this, you really shouldn't have had sex at all.
No, you do not really have to be honest with your gyno. Lying to your doctors is always a good idea. The fact that a simple check will show her than you are a liar and consequently, an idiot should never deter you from trying to fool a person who's job is to try and help you stay healthy.
Oh, she'll do something to you all right. As soon as you are in the room she will magically turn into a horrible purple alien with tentacles a mile in length and she will ram every single one into your ear, because she really enjoys waxing the surfboard.
(Just in case you are confused, I was being totally honest on the first one, sarcastic on the second and downright ridiculing you in the third. Please take each as they were intended.)
No, you do not really have to be honest with your gyno. Lying to your doctors is always a good idea. The fact that a simple check will show her than you are a liar and consequently, an idiot should never deter you from trying to fool a person who's job is to try and help you stay healthy.
Oh, she'll do something to you all right. As soon as you are in the room she will magically turn into a horrible purple alien with tentacles a mile in length and she will ram every single one into your ear, because she really enjoys waxing the surfboard.
(Just in case you are confused, I was being totally honest on the first one, sarcastic on the second and downright ridiculing you in the third. Please take each as they were intended.)
Posted by Cynic on 1/4/2010 7:13:00 PM (Report abuse)
It is unlikely for two virgins to pass STD's however, if either of you have had gential contact with another person, you can indeed pick something up from it and spread it.
AID's and HIV can be passed through birth/needles so if either you or your partner has the virus, this can be passed with no pervious sexual intercourse.
No, you do not have to say you're having sex. But why don't you? It is confidental, and this person wants to look after your health, that is there job, and they cannot do that correctly if you are not completely telling the truth.
They must check every few months about birth control, it's routine, to see that is suiting you correctly.
Once you become sexually active, smear tests will begin. It's unlikely they will occur before you tell your gyno you're having sex. They are a little scary at first, but essential for your health. Don't be scared about them.
Good luck and take care. :]
AID's and HIV can be passed through birth/needles so if either you or your partner has the virus, this can be passed with no pervious sexual intercourse.
No, you do not have to say you're having sex. But why don't you? It is confidental, and this person wants to look after your health, that is there job, and they cannot do that correctly if you are not completely telling the truth.
They must check every few months about birth control, it's routine, to see that is suiting you correctly.
Once you become sexually active, smear tests will begin. It's unlikely they will occur before you tell your gyno you're having sex. They are a little scary at first, but essential for your health. Don't be scared about them.
Good luck and take care. :]
Posted by RedRibbons on 1/4/2010 7:08:00 PM (Report abuse)
You need a check up thingy every year.
So they'll do that whole examination again.
If neither of you has any STDs, they wont appear from nowhere(if you dont know that logically, youre too young to be having sex anyway)
You should tell them you've had sex. Just because. Thats usually when gyno visits start. Go in by yourself. They won't tell your mom.
So they'll do that whole examination again.
If neither of you has any STDs, they wont appear from nowhere(if you dont know that logically, youre too young to be having sex anyway)
You should tell them you've had sex. Just because. Thats usually when gyno visits start. Go in by yourself. They won't tell your mom.
Posted by FinderOfPeace on 1/4/2010 7:05:00 PM (Report abuse)