He hits me... and threatens me....
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 12:51:00 PM
He hits me once in a while when I in his terms "FUCK UP" and he slaps me, kicks me and punches me a few times....made my nose bleed once......now he threaten me to be ready when I get home cuz hes gonna fuck me up,and make me bleed and be sorry for making him late to work????
should i go home?? what should i do??
hes way stronger than me and taller hes about 5'7 and im 5' ft.... im 22 hes 27 (MY FIRST BOYFRIEnD EVER) and weve been together for 5 yrs this started about 2 yrs ago. He knows his got anger issues, and he doesnt apologize he says i should behave better and this wont happen to me.
it only happens when he says "i fucked up" "when i dont do things the RIGHT way" and like today cuz i made him late to work... so its not a regular basis thing, but when it happens or its about to i get so scared cuz he also does it harder.. :0( ((crying)) but i get verbal abuse on a daily basis.
i cant go back home cuz he'll find me and if i tell someone he'll hurt me. but i will i cant leave in a fake love home that i pretend to have...
Tags: his, anger...my, pain.....
Comments
RSS feed for comments on this post.
should i go home?? what should i do??
hes way stronger than me and taller hes about 5'7 and im 5' ft.... im 22 hes 27 (MY FIRST BOYFRIEnD EVER) and weve been together for 5 yrs this started about 2 yrs ago. He knows his got anger issues, and he doesnt apologize he says i should behave better and this wont happen to me.
it only happens when he says "i fucked up" "when i dont do things the RIGHT way" and like today cuz i made him late to work... so its not a regular basis thing, but when it happens or its about to i get so scared cuz he also does it harder.. :0( ((crying)) but i get verbal abuse on a daily basis.
i cant go back home cuz he'll find me and if i tell someone he'll hurt me. but i will i cant leave in a fake love home that i pretend to have...
Tags: his, anger...my, pain.....
Comments
RSS feed for comments on this post.
First you need to figure out where you can go and live where he wont be able to come, find you, and bring you back. Then get your belongings if you have time to get any your gonna need to do this quickly and leave without him or anyone you see on a daily basis knowing if its a family member your going to stay with then that is gonna have to be it
When you leave him finally then you are going to have to be strong and not go back EVER or call him and leave it at that just because he doesnt hit you every day does not mean its okay the VERBAL ABUSE IS WORSE BECAUSE IT LEAVES SCARS WITHOUT BRUISES. YOU ARE A BEUTIFUL HUMAN BEING THAT DESERVES SOMEONE TO BE KIND LOVING AND SWEET TO THEM.
Above all else you have to be strong and not look back for any reason because the truth of the matter is if you leave and come back it will be fine for a minute and then it will get worse. if you stay it will get worse you are in a lose/lose situation and i hope you will find the strength to be strong and leave
When you leave him finally then you are going to have to be strong and not go back EVER or call him and leave it at that just because he doesnt hit you every day does not mean its okay the VERBAL ABUSE IS WORSE BECAUSE IT LEAVES SCARS WITHOUT BRUISES. YOU ARE A BEUTIFUL HUMAN BEING THAT DESERVES SOMEONE TO BE KIND LOVING AND SWEET TO THEM.
Above all else you have to be strong and not look back for any reason because the truth of the matter is if you leave and come back it will be fine for a minute and then it will get worse. if you stay it will get worse you are in a lose/lose situation and i hope you will find the strength to be strong and leave
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/9/2008 12:59:00 AM (Report abuse)
Look things with him are not going to get better only worse..I know your scare to leave him but you got to make the attempt. And if you do successfully leave him he'll probably come and find you and say something like "baby im so sorry i love you it will never happen again things are gonna change" dont even believe him for a second just turn around and dont look back. cause guys like that never change! But listen you got to get away from him and move to a friend's or trusty relative place just until you can straighten your life again. your life doesnt have to be like this. you got to tell someone of whats going on. Please take care of yourself, you are worth more than this!
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/8/2008 10:21:00 PM (Report abuse)
how can you live like that? obviously you need to tell ALL your friends about what he has been doing to you and then dump his ass to the curb.
Posted by Daisy on 9/8/2008 7:36:00 PM (Report abuse)
Yeah really either you beat the fuck out of him with something or kick him to the curb!!!!!!!
Posted by DiamondDrawls on 9/8/2008 3:04:00 PM (Report abuse)
You have to leave him! Leave him immediately and stay somewhere else.
Posted by RokkuRii on 9/8/2008 1:59:00 PM (Report abuse)
Fight back. show him what is like to bleed. on your way home, grab a 2x4 and beat him till he cries "mommie!!!" tell him you wont take his shit no more!!! then, just leave and warn him that if he follows you, you wont go "easy" on him. if indeed he calls the cops on you... you have the right to call it self devence.
Posted by nikkirawks on 9/8/2008 1:12:00 PM (Report abuse)