Holiday romance?
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/5/2008 3:30:00 PM
I went on holiday with my classmates, and I fell in love with a boy. Unfortunately, this presented a problem because I have a boyfriend, who I absolutely love, similarly.
So, post-holiday, I feel shit shit shit.
But the WORST part is that my friend started to fancy him too, only she didn't know I felt the same, so I had to endure her whining about how badly she liked him whilst I had to stay silent and suffer.
I told him I liked him and we ended up kissing. He said he liked me too, and so we were the best of friends... only shortly after I told him my problem with my friend he started to fancy her too.
Now she's single, and I'm terrified that they'll end up together. I have no right to say this because I love my boyfriend, but I desperately like this other boy too.
I can do nothing but sit around and cry about the potential romance dwindling around the corner for her and this boy.
I feel I made such a fool of myself kissing him, and risking my relationship with my boyfriend, just to watch him start to flirt with this girl right in front of me.
I feel so bad I could die.
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So, post-holiday, I feel shit shit shit.
But the WORST part is that my friend started to fancy him too, only she didn't know I felt the same, so I had to endure her whining about how badly she liked him whilst I had to stay silent and suffer.
I told him I liked him and we ended up kissing. He said he liked me too, and so we were the best of friends... only shortly after I told him my problem with my friend he started to fancy her too.
Now she's single, and I'm terrified that they'll end up together. I have no right to say this because I love my boyfriend, but I desperately like this other boy too.
I can do nothing but sit around and cry about the potential romance dwindling around the corner for her and this boy.
I feel I made such a fool of myself kissing him, and risking my relationship with my boyfriend, just to watch him start to flirt with this girl right in front of me.
I feel so bad I could die.
Tags: pain, love, holiday, boy
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Fuck it - I KNOW what love is, and I am NOT in jr high. I am IN love with my boyfriend, but I do love this other boy.
Learn to spell naive before you accuse anyone of being it, dickhead.
Learn to spell naive before you accuse anyone of being it, dickhead.
Posted by Anonymous on 8/8/2008 9:22:00 AM (Report abuse)
Yea I agree with KK7 too. You Are being selfish. I have to honestly say that you're being very nieve. You obviously do not lOVE either of them because when you love someone, you know that they're the only one you want to be with.
You should try graduating jr. high first.
You should try graduating jr. high first.
Posted by Shoty on 8/7/2008 6:19:00 PM (Report abuse)
Why is it such an absurd thought to love 2 guys at once? Perhaps I am blinded by lust. Obviously I love my boyfriend more than this other boy, but I seriously cannot stop thinking about having what I can't have.
I'm ashamed to say it.
What can I do? I OBVIOUSLY wouldn't stand in his way, but I think that if he and her get together it will break my heart.
I'm ashamed to say it.
What can I do? I OBVIOUSLY wouldn't stand in his way, but I think that if he and her get together it will break my heart.
Posted by Anonymous on 8/7/2008 3:47:00 PM (Report abuse)
i agree with penguin...
you seem that you are lusting over the new guy, stick with your boyfriend. let your friend have the other guy and see if they work out. you are being selfish
you seem that you are lusting over the new guy, stick with your boyfriend. let your friend have the other guy and see if they work out. you are being selfish
Posted by Kk7 on 8/6/2008 11:22:00 AM (Report abuse)
Girl, you need to sort yourself out. You can't love two people at the same time, you're just either obsessed or blinded by lust you think you're in love. Love means that you don't ever look at another person with an attraction. Think about yourself and the relationship you're in with your boyfriend and your best friends. If anything, talk with your current boyfriend and tell him what's going on, it's unfair to keep something like that to yourself and make the relationship one-sided.
I hope for the best.
I hope for the best.
Posted by Penguin on 8/5/2008 10:50:00 PM (Report abuse)