How Can I Still Love Him
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/5/2008 7:31:00 AM
I had sex with my boyfriend after 2 years off/on relationship..i thought I was going to be with him forever.He has cheated on my twice in those two years, and nearly everytime we broke up AND got back together he initiated it.i thought giving him everything would make him realise he actually did love me...then 2 days after I did he said he didnt love me anymore.we got back togehter once more then finally I had the guts for once to say its over....
but I still love him...wats wrong with me?
and I'm scared I will be to weak to resist him if he comes and wants me back like he nearly always has...but I really dont want to get back with him coz its hurts to much...
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but I still love him...wats wrong with me?
and I'm scared I will be to weak to resist him if he comes and wants me back like he nearly always has...but I really dont want to get back with him coz its hurts to much...
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ever thought maybe there is just a attatchment becuase u have been with him for 2 yrs.. and u are so confrible with him...
it may not be that u love him it is that u are so used to being together that everything starts to remind u of him and stuff like that.
he probly loves u just not the way u want him to. and he keeps running back becuase he gets stuck somewhere. and the only way to restart is to go back where he was in the beginning.
trust me i was that guy. i did that to someone also. it was more that i was confused and i did'nt really know what i wanted. and the girl i did it to i regret doing it but.
so don't stick around for him becuase it will only get worst. me and that girl are not together anymore, and i like it that way right now. plus i still love her alot but more like a family member and i would take a bullet for her but i realized that we were not compatible becuase we were sooo different.
it may not be that u love him it is that u are so used to being together that everything starts to remind u of him and stuff like that.
he probly loves u just not the way u want him to. and he keeps running back becuase he gets stuck somewhere. and the only way to restart is to go back where he was in the beginning.
trust me i was that guy. i did that to someone also. it was more that i was confused and i did'nt really know what i wanted. and the girl i did it to i regret doing it but.
so don't stick around for him becuase it will only get worst. me and that girl are not together anymore, and i like it that way right now. plus i still love her alot but more like a family member and i would take a bullet for her but i realized that we were not compatible becuase we were sooo different.
Posted by ripperjoey on 9/5/2008 10:06:00 PM (Report abuse)
Wow its like I'm reading a story about myself haha
I was with the "Man of My Dreams"
On/Off for 3 years
He cheated
We broke up everytime he cheated
- (cause I always found out-& always went back for some odd reason)
He was always the one who wanted to get back together
I thought I would die without him in my life
I was with him at a tought age to...16-19
I was unhappy & cried myself to sleep most nights
we got engaged...things were still the same....dont think a ring will change him
you cant change someone. they are who they are. my mom learned that, my sister learned that, & I learned that.
Take my advice hun, seriously...Get Out Now!
Its going to hurt like hell
you'll cry
you'll wanna hide in your room
you wont want to eat
but guess what....those feelings go away
I promise
your happiness is whats important & yes I know it may feel like he is what makes you happy & he is the only thing that will ever make you happy but thats just not true.
Love can be a hard thing.
it will feel like you'll never get over him even when you do talk to other boys or date or even have a boyfriend...you'll still think of him & the dumbest things will remind you of him
trust me i know, it took me over a year to get over my first love....but you know....looking at my life right now & the choice i made to leave him.....it was the bast decision i ever made & i would never take it back. ever.
things will be ok = )
time heals everything
-A.D.C-
I was with the "Man of My Dreams"
On/Off for 3 years
He cheated
We broke up everytime he cheated
- (cause I always found out-& always went back for some odd reason)
He was always the one who wanted to get back together
I thought I would die without him in my life
I was with him at a tought age to...16-19
I was unhappy & cried myself to sleep most nights
we got engaged...things were still the same....dont think a ring will change him
you cant change someone. they are who they are. my mom learned that, my sister learned that, & I learned that.
Take my advice hun, seriously...Get Out Now!
Its going to hurt like hell
you'll cry
you'll wanna hide in your room
you wont want to eat
but guess what....those feelings go away
I promise
your happiness is whats important & yes I know it may feel like he is what makes you happy & he is the only thing that will ever make you happy but thats just not true.
Love can be a hard thing.
it will feel like you'll never get over him even when you do talk to other boys or date or even have a boyfriend...you'll still think of him & the dumbest things will remind you of him
trust me i know, it took me over a year to get over my first love....but you know....looking at my life right now & the choice i made to leave him.....it was the bast decision i ever made & i would never take it back. ever.
things will be ok = )
time heals everything
-A.D.C-
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/5/2008 6:36:00 PM (Report abuse)
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. Trust me, I know.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/5/2008 1:13:00 PM (Report abuse)
He said he didnt love you anymore?
He's definetily not worth it.
He's definetily not worth it.
Posted by Jotiii on 9/5/2008 12:00:00 PM (Report abuse)