I am married but in love with someone else older than me
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/21/2007 8:57:00 PM
I am a 21 yr. old married woman with a 3 yr. old son. I have been married for 2 yrs. now. My husband is an asshole. He is not physically abusive but he is mentally abusive. He saids hurtful stuff to me everyday and makes me feel I'm completely worthless. I was sort of forced into marriage since I had my child. I don't even remembering him asking me. All I know one day I was picking out dresses with his mother and she had the marriage set up. I didn't want to walk down the aisle.. I knew I wasn't ready. To be honest I had to pop 3 Xanax just to get the nerve up...to make everyone happy I wasn't just another unwed mother. We we're even fighting on our wedding night. Now I have fallen mad over hills with a man who is 47 and single. Everyone is like don't leave your husband make it work. Well, when someones heart has turned cold and you can't stand the other person why stay? He's doesn't trust me. Always complaining. Doesn't help me out with my child. I work 12hr. shifts at a hospital-60 hr.s a week. When I come home I am physically and mentally exhausted. I have to cook,clean,and make sure my son gets a bath. He sits around playing videos games-He's 25. This other guy seems to really understand me. What should I do?? Is age just a number?
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Wish I had of found this site along time ago. I stuck it out until my daughter was old enough to know everything that was going on. Smart girl....doesn't like boys.....prefers horses. We just avoid her dad sometimes.....unfortunately I let the man of my dreams walk out of my life.....that was 6 mnths ago and I haven't stopped thinking about him since!!!! Still married and both myself and my daughter are not happy. Go for it if you have the chance! My regret!
Posted by an anonymous user on 8/21/2008 3:36:00 PM (Report abuse)
go for the 47 year old! he's got his life together, and will be responsible and caring.
dump the sorry 25 year olds ass! he will have to pay you child support when you prove he cant be a good father.
dump the sorry 25 year olds ass! he will have to pay you child support when you prove he cant be a good father.
Posted by ....... on 7/21/2008 12:44:00 PM (Report abuse)
which of them has the bigger cock?
Posted by Beth on 1/6/2008 8:50:00 PM (Report abuse)
Hun... you're still so young to live a nasty life like that! What are you waiting for to leave that asshole? People are so hypocrite! Make it work? What? He gives you no worth, he doesn't help you at all, says unkind things to you... Girl, you're just 21!!! You've got a whole life ahead, you're still so young! You deserve to be happy! And regarding your kid, it's going to be also better for him! How could he miss such a father?
Don't you waste the chance life is giving you to go on in a happier path! There is a guy who loves and understands you, and you love him back... can't you see how lucky you are? And yes, his age is just a number, forget this detail! I'm 31 and in love with a guy of 50, and he's awsome!
Kick that bastard away from your life and fall into that guy's arms and just be happy! Forget what people might say! They don't pay your bills, haha! I'll pray for you, darling! :)
Don't you waste the chance life is giving you to go on in a happier path! There is a guy who loves and understands you, and you love him back... can't you see how lucky you are? And yes, his age is just a number, forget this detail! I'm 31 and in love with a guy of 50, and he's awsome!
Kick that bastard away from your life and fall into that guy's arms and just be happy! Forget what people might say! They don't pay your bills, haha! I'll pray for you, darling! :)
Posted by Sol on 11/25/2007 2:49:00 PM (Report abuse)
At the moment people will be saying what about the kid and oh what will happen to him and thye have reason to but if your not happy then make the decision on you because if grows up with a single parent then it will be a happy enviroment rather than parents arguing all the time so it's your decision but take my idvice and do the right think!
Posted by Joanne on 11/24/2007 9:13:00 AM (Report abuse)
i am sort of in the samr situation and all i can say is make your self happy. Your child will appreciate not growing in hostile enviroment. if this is what you want do it i am doing it becoz i cannot be unhappy anymore
Posted by Bjjmty on 11/22/2007 12:30:00 AM (Report abuse)