I Cheated on my Husband

you have done a horrible thing. It's not some mistake or accident its betrayal. it shows that you are not worthy, you are not committed, you have weak convictions, your beliefs are clouded, you have no morals, life is not truly valuable to you, love is not something you truly understand. However there are thing you can do to not be this way.

I am married to the most wonderful lady I have ever met. We have a son and I have a daughter with another woman before my wife whom she accepts as her stepdaughter and cares for as if she were her own. I LOVE MY WIFE! I have never cheated on her, never will. I don't even check out other women; of course I see them and acknowledge them same as I do anyone else, however, my wife is my only. We are one. We made vows to always be true and faithful and work through anything. Yes if my wife cheated on me I'd be hurting inside, but it is also something that we can work through. I would just hope she's honest with me and not hide it. that only would make things worse.

I suggest you tell him. work it out, stop having sex for a while, its obvious that sex is a problem with you if you went somewhere else to get it. you need to go without and appreciate what you do get. if its not as good tell him what to do to make it better rather than lie there and pretend its ok. that is the number one thing that partners dont do enough, comunicate. and comunication is on all levels not just how was your day, do you like this, want to to that, im going out tonight, can you watch the kids, etc. you need to tell him that you want him to pick you up and ravage you. tell him you want him to eat you, and where to stick it and how to move it and move with him. together you can create the greatest moments of your sex life. not all people can just hit it good, some (sorry, most) guys need guidance. even some women need it, but guys hardly ever say it either. its a horrible situation to be in.

I'm sorry for the harsh words above but I know some of it is true, and thats just some stuff to work on. its hard to know and accept those things. I know that you may not want to be this way, there is only one way to make sure youre not. change. show your husband you are changing dont tell him your going to just do it. he will see it and respect you more.

i'd better shut up im writing a book about this stuff and now i'm posting it online for free.

"S-E-L-F-I-S-H"!!!!!!!!!!
Set your husband free cheater.

As a child that went through this growing up, it is such a horrible thing to put anyone through.
How could you even say that you love him? Obviously his love for you wasn't enough that you had to have sex with another man.

If you have the guts to cheat on your husband you should at least have the decency of letting him know what you did and give him a second chance on happiness with someone else.

Please tell him before its too late and you end up hurting so many around you

I think that you need to consider how you would feel if your husband did this to you. If you can honestly say that you don't care, then you need not be with him. If you you have feelings for B and he has feelings for you, then you both need to make proper arangements, but you must be prepared that doing so could potentially ruin relationships you both currently have. Decide if your decisions are best for your children and his.