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I dont often want to go out

Posted by lela on 2/23/2010 6:23:00 AM (Report abuse)
I'd rather stay home and do things by myself.
sometimes I dont like talking to anyone.
i like to escape in my own little world, distant from everyone around me.
then I get upset that I dont have many friends.

so I force myself to talk.but I can't not be me

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Im not social ive never been!
Posted by imani101 on 2/23/2010 8:29:00 AM (Report abuse)
I used to feel like that. I never felt like going to hang out with my friends because I had video games, movies, and TV shows to attend to, as well as a fully stocked kitchen and air conditioning/heating. Then after graduation (not during the summer, but afterwards) a lot of my friends either got jobs, went to college, or were still in high school. I didn't have the financial means of going to college, and I was applying for jobs everywhere with no luck. I wasn't able to hang out with any of my friends because they were all busy, and when I did have the chance I always had something else to do... like make a new family on the Sims, unlock new songs on Rock Band, or catch up on my TV shows. I just had no interest in leaving my nice, cozy home. Now that I'm working I have no time to see any of my friends even if I wanted to. I rarely have off, and when I do, they don't. It really sucks, and I regret not hanging out with them when I had the chance.

So my suggestion to you? Get up off your lazy bum and do it! It's been proven that people who are more social lead longer, healthier lives. Also, I've found that talking to people helps keep you in the loop of what's going on around you. Before I had a job, I never heard anything that was going on in my town or with people I knew because I never saw anyone. Now on the off chance that one of my friends comes into my work, I get to hear stuff. Being social has a lot of advantages, so I suggest you try it!
Posted by Lillica on 2/23/2010 8:25:00 AM (Report abuse)
i used to be loud abnoxious mean a bitch crzy and random but i have changed a lot i dont even shout random things in class any more im just quiet its like im not even there i talk but not a lot im new to my school and its been my first few months so far. I started in october. I cant seem to be myself im just there my teacher had me pick poems that i liked from her poem book because she made me join poetry for speech and she said al the poems i pick i have to find a topic for them and i picked 6 poems from random pages of the book and i liked the poems and i gave her the sheet and i told her i couldnt find a topic so she took about 10 mins and read through the poems and went to the copymachine and printes them put from the book.. She said she did find a topic, and the topic was lonliness, i didnt think of that i just picked poems i related to and i liked, of course i feel lonly but i dont mind it, i dont know whats happend to me and sometimes i wishi was ME again but idk i think im confusing you guys becaus eim even confusing myself lol
Posted by sissorblades on 2/23/2010 8:06:00 AM (Report abuse)
your introverted so is the person who posted on here, I am too, I dont party I smoke weed at home. I have friends but dont hang out with them.

Dont feel bad just for being introverted its just who you are, you will find the right people to chill with. or get a cat, that really does work :)
Posted by notmyname989 on 2/23/2010 7:35:00 AM (Report abuse)
You couldn't imagine how long I have been staying at home. I'm not afraid of taking to people or being in a crowd of people. I am just too lazy to go out.

Computer + Bed + Bathroom + Kitchen + Cat is enough for me to live.
Posted by livibetter on 2/23/2010 6:31:00 AM (Report abuse)

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