I feel like a total whore. or more like, am one.
Posted by beautifulINSANE on 7/12/2008 11:52:00 PM
i feel like such a whore. i was a virgin, and my birthday was coming up. i was going to turn 16. i always knew there was no way i could live with myself if i reached 16 a virgin. i don't have a clue why i thought that way, i just did. it's not like i'm even bad looking, if i do say so myself, i don't mean it pretentiously, but i'm extremely good looking. i mean, it's not like i hadn't hooked up with plenty of guys, i'd just never slept with one. and somehow... it made me feel... i dunno, i guess like ashamed and inexperienced almost. i was always the one who'd done everything before any of my friends and stuff, u know? but this wasn't one of those things... a lot of ppl HAD already lost it. and i hadn't. so then i went clubbing with some random guy i met, who i'm sure was 21+ (most of the guys i end up with are, making it even more ironic that i'm a virgin), and looking back on it, i realize i was being soooo vain in thinking that there was any possibility that he'd invited me out for anything but sex. i mean, had any other guy i knew ever invited me out for any other reason? so afterward we headed to his place and ugh. i feel so stupid. of coarse. i mean no shit, u know? we'd hardly even reached his door before i was nearly completely undressed. and so i was kind like well wtf, hell, why not? this way i wouldn't have to stress over this whole virgin thing any more. and so i let him go ahead and do whatever he pleased. for like 2 hours until i got really bored and lied about having to work early in the morning and went home. and now i feel like a whore. especially because less than an hour before hooking up with him i'd made out with another guy at the club before he got there. ummm... wow. i mean shit. what's wrong with me?
and the worst part is, although i know ppl don't usually like their first time, but truth is, my biggest secret has always been that i've never really felt anything with a guy. so rarely turned on. mostly just bored. and i know i'm not into chicks. so i'm like what, am i just like an exceptionally whore-like, yet totally unsexual person? what the fuck is wrong with me? and i'm assuming it's gotta be normal but i'm still in a lot of pain (physical i mean) and i'm really.... swollen. is that normal?? like a lot. i dunno, no one ever mentioned anything about getting all puffy and swollen. all i can think is maybe i was allergic t the lube? or maybe it's totally normal and i'm paranoid. which i'm hoping it's the latter. like, it hurts to even put a tampon in. i know, a bit too much information, but hey, u'll never know who this is. ugh..........! i feel so stupid.
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and the worst part is, although i know ppl don't usually like their first time, but truth is, my biggest secret has always been that i've never really felt anything with a guy. so rarely turned on. mostly just bored. and i know i'm not into chicks. so i'm like what, am i just like an exceptionally whore-like, yet totally unsexual person? what the fuck is wrong with me? and i'm assuming it's gotta be normal but i'm still in a lot of pain (physical i mean) and i'm really.... swollen. is that normal?? like a lot. i dunno, no one ever mentioned anything about getting all puffy and swollen. all i can think is maybe i was allergic t the lube? or maybe it's totally normal and i'm paranoid. which i'm hoping it's the latter. like, it hurts to even put a tampon in. i know, a bit too much information, but hey, u'll never know who this is. ugh..........! i feel so stupid.
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Generally people dont tend to enjoy sex with people they dont fancy, Wait till you find someone you really like. Also the swelling is prob just due to chafing!
Posted by jailbait on 10/20/2008 5:10:00 PM (Report abuse)
Yep, get checked out for STDS. If you emotionally detached when you're with a guy, something is up. What are you looking for from them? Maybe you should talk to a therapist and find out what from your past is making you want to hook up with so many different people.
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/17/2008 2:48:00 PM (Report abuse)
be careful to get yourself checked out by a gyno, you might have contracted a STI.
Posted by Han on 7/27/2008 6:24:00 AM (Report abuse)
maybe because you were a virgin and had sex for 2 hours your first time you were swollen!!
also, theres pills you can take to make you more sexually pleased???
all i know is that at 16, you shouldnt be clubbing with 21 year olds?? damn! where are your parents girl?!?!
you should be young and innocent as long as you can...your 5 years off from even being legal to drink..you've got plenty of time in front of you.
dont get a std!
also, theres pills you can take to make you more sexually pleased???
all i know is that at 16, you shouldnt be clubbing with 21 year olds?? damn! where are your parents girl?!?!
you should be young and innocent as long as you can...your 5 years off from even being legal to drink..you've got plenty of time in front of you.
dont get a std!
Posted by Kk7 on 7/14/2008 11:01:00 AM (Report abuse)
yea i went all sore and puffy when i first had sex.. did you bleed?
but yeah i never used lube.. so it might be that, i dont know
neway, don't think you're a whore, its not like you've slept around and.. your young! you're meant to have fun :]
and you might not have felt anything with a guy before because you've never been with someone you've really cared about..? and that you've always just been a toy..?
if you don't like who you are then maybe you should change :] maybe you should start looking for someone special and have a REAL meaningfull first time and maybe it'll be better..
but if you're happy just having fun and being 16, then go for it... but yeah dont worry!
x
but yeah i never used lube.. so it might be that, i dont know
neway, don't think you're a whore, its not like you've slept around and.. your young! you're meant to have fun :]
and you might not have felt anything with a guy before because you've never been with someone you've really cared about..? and that you've always just been a toy..?
if you don't like who you are then maybe you should change :] maybe you should start looking for someone special and have a REAL meaningfull first time and maybe it'll be better..
but if you're happy just having fun and being 16, then go for it... but yeah dont worry!
x
Posted by HaveYouEver on 7/13/2008 4:50:00 PM (Report abuse)
Swollen for a day or so isn't abnormal. Longer than that, and I'd get it checked out. I found out I was allergic to latex condoms the hard way. I didn't realize that sex wasn't supposed to have this burning afterwards and the swelling would last a few days.
If your okay with sex, you should be okay with the Gyno. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
If your okay with sex, you should be okay with the Gyno. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
Posted by A on 7/13/2008 4:11:00 PM (Report abuse)