I hate that im gay!

i agree with the above commentators.. my mom has an issue with me being gay, and so, i have a semi-hard time coping with that, but my boyfriend is amazing, his parents even said that i could always live with them if life really got too tough, so you just need to find those around you who will love and support you, and understand that they will be there for you when/if you fall, so just be true to yourself, and good luck. and please try to stay positive, and happy.

also, google all your issues, it always helps me to.

People are born gay.
Its in there genetic jeans.
YOU SHOULD SO WATCH THE MOVIE 'PRAYERS FOR BOBBY'
I SWARE IT WILL HELP YOU SO MUCH.

Its about a gay boy, who dosent want to be gay because he dosent want to go to hell.
and wow, I SWARE it would help you so much with feeling more proud of being a homosexual.

Good luck xD

HEY ALL OF YOU GAYS STOP HOLDING HANDS AND KISSING IN PUBLIC IT IS GROSS.

ALSO IF YOU DO DECIED YOU WANT TO HOLD HANDS AND KISS IN PUBLIC BE PREPARED FOR THE CONSEQUENCES
THAT ISNT A THREAT I JUST MEAN THE DIRTY DISSAPROVING LOOKS YOU GET

THE FACT THAT YOU ARE GAY DOES NOT BOTHER ME I COULD CARE LESS AND I WOULD EVEN BE YOUR FRIEND I DONT HATE GAYS AND I DONT MIND WHEN YOU KISS EACH OTHER IN A PRIVATE PLACE EVEN IF THAT PLACE IS MY HOUSE WITH ME IN THE SAME ROOM OR IS THAT PLACE IS IN SOMEONE ELSES HOUSE AND I HAPPEN TO SEE IT BUT JUST DONT DO IT IN PUBLIC.

YOU ARE GAY AND YES THAT MAKES YOU NOT NORMAL SO DONT ACT LIKE YOU AND YOUR "PARTNER" ARE A NORMAL COUPLE BEING GAY JUST ISNT NORMAL SO DONT HOLD HANDS AND KISS IN PUBLIC

THANKS

PS GOD DOES LOVE YOU

Hey :) I was one anonymus user that you posted something on :) Your advice was great! I hope you follow your own advice too :D

Look kiddo - I know there is this whole stigma around being gay, in the straight world that is. I am gay and have been living free and out for over 15 years. I have never been happier in my life. What you won't hear from straight folks, what they don't get - is that being gay can be amazing IF you stop worring about what other people think, and what THEY want YOU to do with YOUR life. And stop feeling guilty. It is totally untrue that being gay is unnatural and all that bull - just look to nature.

There is an amazing gay community out there and because gay people (rarely) have kids on accident they are free to build a great stable life BEFORE they have children. You can have tremendous freedom to shape and mold your life to be what you want it to be. There are a fair amount of "straight" people who are really gay and they just don't have the courage to come out - so they want everyone else to be miserable right along with them. They are easy to pick out because they want to fix us and wave bibles around, hell and damnation and stuff. If you see that crap - RUN as fast as you can cause you are dealing with a really F'ed up wackjob.

In the gay community there are endless support and social groups so you can meet people that you enjoy being around. Sure there are bad apples in every bunch and if you have low standards for friends, are codependent or self destructive you will be a magnet to these types (just like in the straight world). BUT if you work on your emotional stuff and get clear, work on connecting with others so that you have good friends and supports (and don't sleep with those ones!!) you will find you are happier than you can imagine.

My advice; live in a location where you have a strong community (like San Francisco for example - there are many others), go to college if you haven't already, get out there and meet lots of people, NEVER SLEEP WITH YOUR FRIEND'S MATES, never sleep with your inner circle of friends unless you really fall in love, don't fall in to the mindless sex and/or drug scene, steer clear of online hook-ups and anonymous sex partners, ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM, and finally really work on developing a career, hobbies and life that suits your interests and dreams - don't be one dimentional all gay, all the time -- boring! And don't have kids and get married or civil unionized because it is the cool trendy thing to do. WAIT until you are much older to make these serious life commitments, have fun while you are young.

BTW - even if you live in a rural area there are often support systems you can look up. Check out Pink Pages I think they list them across the country. You can even get involved in the political end of things like HRC and other orgs. If that is your cup of tea, it is a great way to meet people for friendships.

Oh yeah, go to PRIDE MARCHES and celebrations yearly in June. These are always uplifting and fun.

Take care kiddo! You have a big gay exciting life ahead - don't let the straights get you down, they are just jealous that we get to have all the fun ;-P

GAY, PROUD, HAPPY

There's an organization call Exodus International that is all about helping homosexuals. Thousands have been helped and are now married and have children. Maybe you could look into that. Hope I helped:) Best of luck.

just be open about it. obviously you think that there is something wrong with it or else you wouldnt be so uncomfortable. tell everyone, you will feel alot better. its not as big of a deal as you are making it.