I have no orgasm
Posted by andromeda on 11/3/2007 1:42:00 PM
I started my sexual life 3 years ago, but i had no orgasm for all this time. I changed 3 boyfriends and it's still the same. With my last boyfriend we tried a lot of positions and sometimes it becomes painful. Is it possible that i will have no orgasm for all my life? What should i do to make it happen?
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Use a vibrator! I started having sex with my boyfriend at 14 and I didn't have an orgasm until I was 17 and had gotten a vibrator that I used on my clitoris. I've never had an orgasm from just sex alone. I can by using my fingers on my clit, but it takes a long time. Vibrators are so much faster. If you're scared to buy one, try a back massager or a battery powered toothbrush. Anything that vibrates will work! I also think you should masturbate on your own and find out what gets you off. Then try it out with your boyfriend.
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/2/2008 8:21:00 AM (Report abuse)
Your focus on an orgasm means that "someone" told you, or suggeted, that you need to have one. To be norMAL? That is not true. An orgasm is not just a physical experience and the harder you try, the less likely you are to get there. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." There is a funny connection to a woman's very first orgasm ~ it "hooks" her to that man forever. So unless this guy has more to offer than just his penis, it is doubtful that you will ever be "hooked" to him for life. Chill out a bit and add this bit of wisdom to your pool of knowledge ~ if an orgasm just "happens" then this is one helluva lucky guy! And you are one helluva lucky woman, cause this guy has something that is worth keeping ~ even if you can't quite see it. The reverse of that is also true!
Posted by 5 cents please on 3/30/2008 5:37:00 AM (Report abuse)
Fore play is paramountly important. Playing of the clitoris with the penis and even more cock sacking and linking of the enterance of the vigina. Using of vibrators can help speed up the process. Try and let me know if it does work.
Posted by Moffat on 11/14/2007 6:40:00 PM (Report abuse)
Be creative with your imagination.... dont think your doing it wrong or that he might judge you... let loose.. relax your body and mind... feel the movement of your body....
my boyfriend and i had been going at it for 2 years before i had my 1st orgasm... the reason being i never let loose and was thinking about it to much... but when it did come it was the best feeling i had ever felt.... it gets better when you climaz at the same time as your partner. (misionary position) ;)
my boyfriend and i had been going at it for 2 years before i had my 1st orgasm... the reason being i never let loose and was thinking about it to much... but when it did come it was the best feeling i had ever felt.... it gets better when you climaz at the same time as your partner. (misionary position) ;)
Posted by Amores on 11/14/2007 6:27:00 PM (Report abuse)
Thank you John, i will deffinetly try, but i don't know why i feel unconfortable to ask my boyfriend for more. He is trying to "prepare" me for the moment, but I think there is something missing. Could it be because he's doing something wrong, or it's just because I'm not so sensitive as I should be. What I forgot to say, is that I have a good sexual desire, and I am waiting for the intimate moment. Some people would advise me to start "playing" with myself but I'm getting borred doing this, so i give up very fast. I'm waiting for HIM all the time, because I find the "alone" intimacy not interesting at all... and even if I get pleasure from sex, it never reaches the orgasm...
About my parents--no, i never told that to my parents because I find that...embarassing... thay are old-fashioned (you know, sex after marriage,and stuff like that) so it's kind of useless for me to tell them that.
About my parents--no, i never told that to my parents because I find that...embarassing... thay are old-fashioned (you know, sex after marriage,and stuff like that) so it's kind of useless for me to tell them that.
Posted by Andromeda on 11/11/2007 1:10:00 PM (Report abuse)
I may cure it for you, if you give me a chance. While it happens, do somethings ask you boyfriend to really pampers you and tease your body. It is not about positions, it is about how you prepare yourself for the moment. I make girl have nice orgasm playing my fingers and tounge, sometimes even talking by phone. Try and let me know.
Posted by John on 11/7/2007 7:08:00 PM (Report abuse)
Ever tried geting used to your body your self or ever told ur parents
Posted by Kelley on 11/5/2007 8:04:00 PM (Report abuse)