I hit him
Posted by cordova on 6/13/2008 12:39:00 AM
and my boyfriend hit me back.
I don't even remember what we fought about but he pushed me and I slapped him in the face. Then he grabbed me and slapped me back. I didn't hit him that hard but I feel like he knocked me out for a moment.
I couldn't even tell anyone about it because I was so embarressed.
I know I shouldn't have hit him first.. but still. I don't know. We apologized to each other, but I still can't believe it happened. This has never happened before.
I'm angry and terrified and sad and confused.
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I don't even remember what we fought about but he pushed me and I slapped him in the face. Then he grabbed me and slapped me back. I didn't hit him that hard but I feel like he knocked me out for a moment.
I couldn't even tell anyone about it because I was so embarressed.
I know I shouldn't have hit him first.. but still. I don't know. We apologized to each other, but I still can't believe it happened. This has never happened before.
I'm angry and terrified and sad and confused.
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I know this comment is late but I just had to comment...first off person below me I agree with you 100%...the person under you is an idiot!
Now, I was in a relationship 3 years & lets just say it started off like what you just described & it only got worse. I know we all want to be equal, but in reality people 75% of the time the man is bigger than the woman & can do ALOT more damage. I do somewhat agree with the saying "if your man enough to hit a man, your man enough to take a hit from a man" I agree to a certain extent! He pushed you...so you slapped him. I agree with that in one way. A man puts his hands on me, I'm going to put my hands on him (although there should be nothing like that going on at all, be the bigger person & just walk away)
I really dont know where this is going but
Just take my advice honey if you havent done this already....Leave because its not a maybe, its a guarantee that it will get worse. Maybe not now, but it will eventually. I know you probably love him more than anything but honey love is blind & it can make you a fool. Dont be a fool. Walk away. Get out. Be happy~!
-A.D.C-
Now, I was in a relationship 3 years & lets just say it started off like what you just described & it only got worse. I know we all want to be equal, but in reality people 75% of the time the man is bigger than the woman & can do ALOT more damage. I do somewhat agree with the saying "if your man enough to hit a man, your man enough to take a hit from a man" I agree to a certain extent! He pushed you...so you slapped him. I agree with that in one way. A man puts his hands on me, I'm going to put my hands on him (although there should be nothing like that going on at all, be the bigger person & just walk away)
I really dont know where this is going but
Just take my advice honey if you havent done this already....Leave because its not a maybe, its a guarantee that it will get worse. Maybe not now, but it will eventually. I know you probably love him more than anything but honey love is blind & it can make you a fool. Dont be a fool. Walk away. Get out. Be happy~!
-A.D.C-
Posted by an anonymous user on 9/5/2008 6:24:00 PM (Report abuse)
...you're an idiot (comment below me)
how is the difference in size or strength equality?
He pushed her first. she had a right to defend herself, he didnt have the right to hit her.
and wtf are you talking about equality for? what, did you just get replaced by a woman at work? grow up, and stop twisting that idea to fit the mould of an abusive relationship.
how is the difference in size or strength equality?
He pushed her first. she had a right to defend herself, he didnt have the right to hit her.
and wtf are you talking about equality for? what, did you just get replaced by a woman at work? grow up, and stop twisting that idea to fit the mould of an abusive relationship.
Posted by =\ on 6/27/2008 3:20:00 PM (Report abuse)
If you hit him first, then you deserve to get hit back. You can't cry for equality and then whine when you get it. If you want true equality then you receive exactly the same as a man would - the bad aspects, as well as the good.
Posted by 1sttimeuser on 6/17/2008 10:58:00 PM (Report abuse)
my man has never laid a hand on me and i beat him up all the time.
its called respect and knowing how to treat a woman.
he could have been caught off guard but he should have reacted a different way and he shouldnt have pushed him in the first place!
its called respect and knowing how to treat a woman.
he could have been caught off guard but he should have reacted a different way and he shouldnt have pushed him in the first place!
Posted by K on 6/13/2008 2:13:00 PM (Report abuse)
So you were both wrong. Some people are toxic for each other. LEAVE NOW before it gets worse.
Posted by Piggybecky on 6/13/2008 11:54:00 AM (Report abuse)
Your right you should have not hit him. But on the other side he should have not even laid a finger on you. I know its cliche but men never belong harming a woman. 3/4ths of the time they are stronger. No one should be hitting any one in any relationship but he should have had self control I am so sorry that this happened to you. A good friend of mine her relaionship started out like this and it only got worse before he put her in the hospital and did many more worse things to her. As well as I have been in an abusive relatioinship. This relationship is not going any where good I cann assure you one that! Good luck my love!
Posted by Bringmetolife on 6/13/2008 10:24:00 AM (Report abuse)