I keep dreaming about my exboyfriend and I'm married!

I keep having dreams about my ex-boyfriend.Last night I dreamed about him all night long.And not just any dream..I dreamed that He came to my house and told me that he made the biggest mistake of his life when he broke up with me and that he loved me and wanted to be with me.In the dream I left my husband for him.Its crazy!

my ex truely was my first real love and we spent nearly 3 years together.We had a very strong connection and great chemistry.I was heartbroken when he broke up with me.I am happily married now however we don't have the same chemistry I had with my ex. My ex is not married nor is he dating anyone.I will admit that I often wonder if he ever thinks about me.If he sees how succesful I have turned out to be and what a wonderful family I have.I often wonder if he is jealous (and I often hope he is...) I guess I still have bad feelings toward him for breaking my heart (which was nearly 7 years ago.)

What do you think this dream means? And do you all think I am wrong for thinking about him and wondering if he ever thinks about me? Am I wrong to hope somewhere inside that he is jealous of me and my life? Please reply..I could definately use any of your advice/answers! Thank you
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truelyblessed
I know Gul. It worries me too but I don't know why I am dreaming/ thinking about him. My husband is wonderful and I would never, ever dream of cheating on him or leaving him. I just can't seem to get my ex out of my mind or my dreams for some reason. We shared a lot of special memories together and I always thought he would be the one I would marry someday. My dad and his uncle are best friends and have been for years.. I think that everyone in both of our families hoped and thought that one day we would marry. I see his uncle all the time because he comes over and visits my dad a lot. Its hard to forget about my ex because he brings him up in conversation... I can't help but wonder what my life would be like now if we would have stayed together and married. ???? I can't seem to get all of this out of my head....
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truelyblessed
It's only natural to want your ex to regret about the breakup...but if you are so well settled and happy then why there is still room for him?The dreaming part worries me,somehow.
Take care.
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gul
I think deep down you still have something for him. But you also want him to be jealous of you because he hurt you and you sorta want to hurt him. No its not wrong that you think about him, he was your first real love and you will never forget him. And if he felt the same way about you as you felt about him, im sure he still thinks about you also. I'm sure there maybe some jealousy he has towards you and your marriage and is thinking he did make a mistake. But he knows theres nothing he can do now.
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