I love him,...I think.
Posted by braddate on 6/17/2008 6:04:00 PM
Okay well..lets call him 'Brad'. Well, I met Brad a month ago. Ever since than I really liked him and i wanted to ask him out. So, i did, and it turns out he liked me too. So, were going out but I'm not sure if I still like him. We've only been going out for about 2 weeks and I know thats not very long but hes changed alot since I started going out with him.
Brad always says he loves me and he wants to be with me all his life, and I always said that back because I did want to be with him all my life and I did love him..Alot. So, I told my friend about this suitation and she said that i should brake up with him. But one moment I love him and the next I dont like him at all.
I don't know what to do because I know he likes me alot and I don't want to hurt him and he is pretty much the only guy i ever went out with that is nice and honest and I dont really care what they look like because looks don't matter,.
Any Advise?
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Brad always says he loves me and he wants to be with me all his life, and I always said that back because I did want to be with him all my life and I did love him..Alot. So, I told my friend about this suitation and she said that i should brake up with him. But one moment I love him and the next I dont like him at all.
I don't know what to do because I know he likes me alot and I don't want to hurt him and he is pretty much the only guy i ever went out with that is nice and honest and I dont really care what they look like because looks don't matter,.
Any Advise?
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Maybe you have commitment issues?
Posted by Betty on 6/22/2008 7:21:00 PM (Report abuse)
Relationships are a complicated thing but believe me if you like him or love him "sometimes" stay with him because there has been times where i have felt the same way about my boyfriends and i broke up with them and now i want one of them back. Just try and work things out.
But if you are not happy dont stay in the relationship thats the worst
But if you are not happy dont stay in the relationship thats the worst
Posted by Emily on 6/19/2008 9:05:00 PM (Report abuse)
wow...this is wierd...i dated a guy named brad for about 8 months... and i was crazy about him one moment and the next, i wanted to be single and i didnt want him near me.
hun, what you have is not love. love doesnt love one moment and the next, not love him. Love is not a switch you can just turn on and off....what you have is lust...
and you obviously arent lusting him enough. try a trial separation. it really works...if you guys still have your feelings after like a week of small talk, then try a relationship again.
i know he really likes you, but its better to break his heart at the beginning than at the end where you realize you dont really love him, but by that time hes head over heels for you.
be real
hun, what you have is not love. love doesnt love one moment and the next, not love him. Love is not a switch you can just turn on and off....what you have is lust...
and you obviously arent lusting him enough. try a trial separation. it really works...if you guys still have your feelings after like a week of small talk, then try a relationship again.
i know he really likes you, but its better to break his heart at the beginning than at the end where you realize you dont really love him, but by that time hes head over heels for you.
be real
Posted by Kk7 on 6/18/2008 10:15:00 AM (Report abuse)