I love my best friend but theres a few problems. wat do i do
Posted by an anonymous user on 5/27/2008 8:41:00 AM
ok im a girl and im 14 years old, i love my best friend who is a guy and hes 15 years old. we hang out alot n stuff just like normal best friends. but one day when we went to the park i showed him some of my poetry because he wanted to see some of it. So i let him see and i forgot i put a letter in my poetry book about how much i loved him. i was never going to give it to him but he had saw it and when he did i snatched it up and ran to flush it down the toilet but he chased me n stuff and he got it and read it. ever since, we got even closer and we wrestled and he held me and he let me hold him. one day we were sitting on a bench and he wanted to kiss me so i let him but i was so nervous i turned my head and he kissed me on the side of my lips. we used to hang out with my other best friend brenda but lately he has been wanting to hang out with me more and more but without anybody except us and when i do have to go him he practically begs me to stay. so one day i asked him out,but he said that he only liked me as a friend and i asked then why are you acting like my boyfriend n he said i dunno,i just feel cool around you. well the next day his mom found out we had been hanging out together and his mom wont let him date and she forbidden him from seeing me again. But that didn't stop him, we developed a plan to still see eachother, but what i wanna know is if he only likes me as a friend then why is he acting like he wants to be my boyfriend? what do yall think?
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Boys are really weird at that age. When I was 13, a male friend and I went to this dance and he asked me if I wanted to be his "girlfriend." The next day, though, he told me that he didn't like me like that, but he still wanted to be friends. A year later (when I was 14), he told me that he went home and told his parents about me, and that they got mad and said that he could not date until he was in high school. I asked him why he didn't just tell me about what his parents said, and he didn't know why either. Anyway, we dated a little bit after that, but he bored me, and I broke up with him. We remained friends for a while.
Another possibility is that he doesn't know what he wants. He probably has feelings for you, but doesn't want to limit his options. I had a friend once (in fact, it is the same man that I mentioned before), that led me on for years--and made me believe that we could someday be more than friends. Eventually, I found out that he was just keeping me in waiting. I was number three on his list. If numbers one and two didn't want him, then I could have him. (He doesn't understand why I'm mad about that. Like it's such a great honor to even be on his list, and to be number three--wow! ummmmm NOT).
These are my two explanations. It's possible that none of them apply to this boy. Then again, most men are basically the same personality put into different bodies.
The moral of my story is to not pine after this guy. You're too young to get too serious anyway. You need to "shop around." Try to find someone who won't lead you on like that, or who isn't so fickle. You have plenty of time.
Another possibility is that he doesn't know what he wants. He probably has feelings for you, but doesn't want to limit his options. I had a friend once (in fact, it is the same man that I mentioned before), that led me on for years--and made me believe that we could someday be more than friends. Eventually, I found out that he was just keeping me in waiting. I was number three on his list. If numbers one and two didn't want him, then I could have him. (He doesn't understand why I'm mad about that. Like it's such a great honor to even be on his list, and to be number three--wow! ummmmm NOT).
These are my two explanations. It's possible that none of them apply to this boy. Then again, most men are basically the same personality put into different bodies.
The moral of my story is to not pine after this guy. You're too young to get too serious anyway. You need to "shop around." Try to find someone who won't lead you on like that, or who isn't so fickle. You have plenty of time.
Posted by FRC on 5/27/2008 10:43:00 PM (Report abuse)