I need help on this one
Posted by nelly123 on 7/5/2008 5:45:00 PM
me and my boyfriend been dating for 4years he ask me if i wanted to have sex with him i said not yet im only 15and he is 15 t oo i really love him so should i have sex with him help plz before we break up
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...I think you should. Beacuse yes he loves you, but he has needs to. And he's just a guy. And if he thinks that you two are going no where, then you're both probably going to break up. Just use protection. Unless you're really scrared, then just talk it over with him, and there are ways so its a 99% chance you wont get pregnant and still actually really fuck eachother. I'd say go for it.
Posted by Tory on 7/25/2008 12:30:00 PM (Report abuse)
Yes you should
Posted by Samantha on 7/6/2008 8:55:00 PM (Report abuse)
Hey there. (:
If your boyfriend really loves you, he won't break up with you just because you won't have sex with him. He should respect your body and decision if he loves you, but if he breaks it off just because you said "no", he's not worth your time at all because all he wanted from you was your body in the first place.
Also, remember laws in your state. If you guys decide to have sex and it's against the laws and someone finds out and reports it, either one of you can go to jail for statutory rape even if it was with consent from both of you guys.
I'd personally say it's not worth it, I wouldn't want to see someone I loved go to jail.
If your boyfriend really loves you, he won't break up with you just because you won't have sex with him. He should respect your body and decision if he loves you, but if he breaks it off just because you said "no", he's not worth your time at all because all he wanted from you was your body in the first place.
Also, remember laws in your state. If you guys decide to have sex and it's against the laws and someone finds out and reports it, either one of you can go to jail for statutory rape even if it was with consent from both of you guys.
I'd personally say it's not worth it, I wouldn't want to see someone I loved go to jail.
Posted by Penguin on 7/6/2008 8:38:00 PM (Report abuse)
you're 15, seriously think about it. just keep saying no and if he breaks up with you, then that's what happens, that's probably better than being pregnant or known as the school slut.
Posted by You're 15 on 7/6/2008 12:25:00 PM (Report abuse)