I think my boss hates me
Posted by kimberlian on 4/24/2008 1:44:00 PM
Every since i started my job, i feel as if my boss is out to get me in everyway - trying to annoy and nick pick at every little mistake i do. I don't get her, i feel she's insecure about herself and jealous of the way i look and how well i get along with others. It's not my fault i'm nice to everyone i meet and she's a total bitch and swears to everyone she talks too. She disrespect everyone even to her dearest friend.
She tries to hard and people know she's a fake. There was a few time she was trying to get me jealous by sharing her food with everyone else in the room beside me, plus other time she was eating in the lunch room with the co-worker i usually eat lunch with. She had to nerve to come back to me and say, "oh how come your not eating in the lunch room, it's cause i'm there isn't it. I know, it's because i'm your boss. I've made prearrangment to have lunch with a friend outside of work and it's none of her business what i do or who i eat with during my lunch time. It's my time, and i could do whatever i want.
What i can't stand is, i took her off my facebook friend...for why the hell i want my boss to be my friend exspecially after she treated me. She comes to a few weeks back asking me why everyone took her off as a friend....well i had my reason cause your a bitch...gezzz. and she had the nerve to throw her title around.
I think she's taking it to her head...that she's the mighty god....Ahhh...i can't stand her.
Thanks for listening.
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She tries to hard and people know she's a fake. There was a few time she was trying to get me jealous by sharing her food with everyone else in the room beside me, plus other time she was eating in the lunch room with the co-worker i usually eat lunch with. She had to nerve to come back to me and say, "oh how come your not eating in the lunch room, it's cause i'm there isn't it. I know, it's because i'm your boss. I've made prearrangment to have lunch with a friend outside of work and it's none of her business what i do or who i eat with during my lunch time. It's my time, and i could do whatever i want.
What i can't stand is, i took her off my facebook friend...for why the hell i want my boss to be my friend exspecially after she treated me. She comes to a few weeks back asking me why everyone took her off as a friend....well i had my reason cause your a bitch...gezzz. and she had the nerve to throw her title around.
I think she's taking it to her head...that she's the mighty god....Ahhh...i can't stand her.
Thanks for listening.
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Seems to me you need to get over yourself. Her having lunch with your co-workers I doubt seriously was designed to irritate you. What makes you so exceptional that she would bother herself with you. How about you worry about your job and doing that correctly and stop worrying about your boss. Oh and by the way, looking at your grammatical errors also leads me to believe that perhaps you need to develop yourself educationally and stop worrying about your boss, as she is your boss and will always be your boss.
Posted by Abucaca on 5/4/2008 9:19:00 AM (Report abuse)
maybe she just doesnt know how to communicate with people? ..like i am. though i tend to avoid people rather than deliberately upsetting others just for attention. i think that's what she wants, attention. Some people just want to be noticed and all. Or it might she wants to get to know you better but seeing how neither of you seem to like each much..it will get a bit awkward and tense wouldn't it?
I wont ask you to understand her as firstly she should try to understand you and your feelings of being discriminated. Watch and wait. You could try talking with her but i know from past experiance sometimes it just doesn't work, rather it gets worse. Try anyway if you want.
You could just be a devil and make life difficult for her..though not really a good method, you could maybe reach a sort of truce that way. Something like the words what you give is what you get. I wouldn't advise it though. She is your boss afterall..
But then again, if you feel really unhappy and cant just bear it-or her-you could just quit the job and find another. Sorry. im not much help am i? But really, i think feelings come first. If you are really unhappy with it. You dont need to deal with it. Sometimes, if theres an easy way out, take it. Sometimes in life its okay to not solve certain problems^^
Im sorry i ranted on and on. You could take one of the above options or you could choose another of your own. Though i really shouldnt say anyhing because for one thing im still in school and for another, i dont have a job at the current moment. hope that my advice helped.most likely it didn't but oh well^^.
Thank you for reading. Have a good life ;D
I wont ask you to understand her as firstly she should try to understand you and your feelings of being discriminated. Watch and wait. You could try talking with her but i know from past experiance sometimes it just doesn't work, rather it gets worse. Try anyway if you want.
You could just be a devil and make life difficult for her..though not really a good method, you could maybe reach a sort of truce that way. Something like the words what you give is what you get. I wouldn't advise it though. She is your boss afterall..
But then again, if you feel really unhappy and cant just bear it-or her-you could just quit the job and find another. Sorry. im not much help am i? But really, i think feelings come first. If you are really unhappy with it. You dont need to deal with it. Sometimes, if theres an easy way out, take it. Sometimes in life its okay to not solve certain problems^^
Im sorry i ranted on and on. You could take one of the above options or you could choose another of your own. Though i really shouldnt say anyhing because for one thing im still in school and for another, i dont have a job at the current moment. hope that my advice helped.most likely it didn't but oh well^^.
Thank you for reading. Have a good life ;D
Posted by ^^ on 4/25/2008 4:21:00 AM (Report abuse)