I was raped.
Posted by ChooseAUsername on 8/5/2008 2:04:00 AM
And I saw the man that did it. I walked up to him and said,
"Hello, do you remember me?"
And he looked at me blankly and replied,
"No, who are you?"
He didn't even remember the girl who's innocence he killed. And for some odd reason after all these years its starting to eat at me. I have never told anyone about it until now. I just don't know how to deal with it, because its been so long. But thats not something you can just forget. Please help. I will listen to any advice. Thank you.
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"Hello, do you remember me?"
And he looked at me blankly and replied,
"No, who are you?"
He didn't even remember the girl who's innocence he killed. And for some odd reason after all these years its starting to eat at me. I have never told anyone about it until now. I just don't know how to deal with it, because its been so long. But thats not something you can just forget. Please help. I will listen to any advice. Thank you.
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it shouldn't be eating at you, i guess thats easy for me to say because i dont know how you feel, but you had the strenght and courage to walk up to this man and ask him straight to his face if he remembered you. there are not many people out there who could do that, you showed that you had no fear of him and u were willing to challenge him. that should count for a lot, i wish i could have half of the courage that you showed that day. also not many women who are raped see their attacked and never get justice because of this, you could get justice - he deserves to be punished for what he has done to you! ans you and only you have that power, use it! maybe he has raped someone else........he needs to be caught! u need justic
Posted by an anonymous user on 10/3/2008 2:53:00 PM (Report abuse)
you can always talk to someone. anyone. just letting it all out works sometimes.
good luck babe
<33much love.
good luck babe
<33much love.
Posted by laceyL on 8/21/2008 4:44:00 AM (Report abuse)
I do remember who you are
and i am forever sorry
i didnt realise i was destroying your innocence..i thought you were enjoying it
and i am forever sorry
i didnt realise i was destroying your innocence..i thought you were enjoying it
Posted by Anonymous on 8/9/2008 7:19:00 AM (Report abuse)
I was raped by my sister. And for years I kept it to myself. I am a girl and I was scared that no one would ever believe me. So I made my life a lie. I finally realize that I'm not going to let that hold me back in life.
You shouldn't either. I know it hurts and the memories must haunt you; however, you can take control of the situation and make sure he never runs your life or thoughts by just forgetting. I had to go to a counselor and it helped immensely
You shouldn't either. I know it hurts and the memories must haunt you; however, you can take control of the situation and make sure he never runs your life or thoughts by just forgetting. I had to go to a counselor and it helped immensely
Posted by MC on 8/5/2008 6:25:00 PM (Report abuse)
I, too, went through what your going through. But ya know what? I Decided that I REFUSE to give that person any more power over me. Fuck that! Ok, he raped you, took your innocence, but don't give him anymore! Let NO ONE hold that kind of power over you because then their winning AGAIN. Put what happened to you away. It's done, it's over, your still you no matter what, and just remember that he WILL get whats coming to him. Fate and the laws of attraction take care of that. The one who raped me, died young. I laughed when I saw his obituary. So be strong.
Posted by Babyhedred on 8/5/2008 10:47:00 AM (Report abuse)
i guess you have the choice to sit back and know he's still out there possibly raping other girls..or you could tell the cops and give them his info, (what he looks like) in case another girl gets raped by him, they will have more evidence.
Posted by Kk7 on 8/5/2008 10:33:00 AM (Report abuse)
by the way if it is real u need t report it asap
Posted by Glitz on 8/5/2008 10:14:00 AM (Report abuse)
try a counselor
they could help you sort through your emotions and give you techniques on how to handle emotion episodes
i don't know how long it's been, but most likely if it's been over 2 years, you won't be able to put him in jail
i don't know if that's your intention
but you could put him on trial, but the jury would probably find him innocent because of all the time that's gone by and all the evidence that has gone away
but you if wanted to confront him, put him on trial
that way, you get to speak your piece on how he stole your innocence
hope this helped
they could help you sort through your emotions and give you techniques on how to handle emotion episodes
i don't know how long it's been, but most likely if it's been over 2 years, you won't be able to put him in jail
i don't know if that's your intention
but you could put him on trial, but the jury would probably find him innocent because of all the time that's gone by and all the evidence that has gone away
but you if wanted to confront him, put him on trial
that way, you get to speak your piece on how he stole your innocence
hope this helped
Posted by Lcpa543 on 8/5/2008 9:22:00 AM (Report abuse)