They are few and far between.....if you'd you'd look past the harden man you'd see see someone kind and sweet...few have seen this side of me...even when they see this side of me they don't fully understand me...misunderstood and sick of it.
no I agree with you... I just hate backing down but it is for the greater good, I do back down anyways once it gets really emotional... so why not back down before it gets to that point. just agree and nodd my head a smile at the jackass.
I don't remember me ever having disagreements with you lol anyways when I get angry, I just realize that the person making me angry is just being a baby, and is looking for a fight, and I pretty much think they're stupid for taking things so seriously. Its not a good use of my time wasting it arguing with someone, because you can't change people's minds about anything, especially if they are defensive in that moment. I usually just tell them they are right and move on, even if I know they're wrong. I've realized since I was a kid, that people's personalities can't be changed until they want to truly change. Most people are to lazy to try and change. All we can do is change ourselves, survival of the fittest is not of the strongest or smartest creatures, its the creatures that respond best to change. Change includes other people. Anyways sorry for the huge comment, its just my opinion anyways.
thanks safenet, I know we had are share of dis agreements... I know I can be a dick sometimes but lately I have seen you in a whole new light... I have been putting into practice anger control and forgiveness... but it really has been a stuggle for me. I don't see why I should be taking all this bullshit lying down , when others make no effort for self improvement...any thoughts on this to change my point of view?
People don't even understand themselves. I think you should show this side of yourself more often. We wish people could read minds, but no one can. That's why things are so hard sometimes. People rarely take the time to get to know someone past the surface of what they see.
