I wish I wasn't married.
Posted by MissMe on 11/11/2008 3:11:00 PM
I've been married for less than a year. We dated for 6 months before I found out I was pregnant. We married a few months after finding out; I didn't want to be the only one in my family unmarried and w/ a child. He was born 4 months ago, and is the center of my universe! I wish it was just us two- my husband annoys the shit out of me. He's fat, he drinks too much, he smokes, he talks just to hear himself. I could go on and on. I don't want to be this bitter bitch. How do I get myself to be happy and back in love w/ my husband? I could just cry...giving up on my marriage is not an option....but yet he makes my skin crawl.
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Then...I had a dream last night that a train derailed..twice! If that doesn't have some super interpretation behind it..then I don't know what does! I wonder what that means....I'm running off track?
Posted by MissMe on 11/12/2008 2:54:00 PM (Report abuse)
if you are unhappy your child will pick up on it... Sit down and really think things over...Dont stay in an unhappy relationship just because your worried about what others would think about you having a child and not being married.... Give him the chance to change and remember you cannot change him.... but seriously don't cheat your child.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/12/2008 1:24:00 PM (Report abuse)
If you 'believe' then pray. It always helps.
And talk to him. Communication is often lost once you're married, but it's not an impossible thing to have it back. Talk to your husband about your concerns, maybe not so bluntly, but try not to be angry when you do. If you show him love, you will feel love, and you will be able to communicate with love. I know it's easy to feel so frustrated and it's not easy to hold back resentment, but I believe if you are sincere then things will get better. I wish you all the best.
And talk to him. Communication is often lost once you're married, but it's not an impossible thing to have it back. Talk to your husband about your concerns, maybe not so bluntly, but try not to be angry when you do. If you show him love, you will feel love, and you will be able to communicate with love. I know it's easy to feel so frustrated and it's not easy to hold back resentment, but I believe if you are sincere then things will get better. I wish you all the best.
Posted by an anonymous user on 11/11/2008 5:57:00 PM (Report abuse)